HELP!!-- with pic of my dress

PazzaRagazza Posted: May 30, 2010 04:30 PM

HELP!!-- with pic of my dress

so as you all know my day went amazing at the say yes to the dress filming HOWEVER my mother has been acting so weird to me like very standoffish and i think its because i didnt choose the dress she wanted :( ive been asking her day after day is everything ok and she just says yea fine-- its a c r a p p y feeling and i want her to enjoy everyminute of this with me and i dont know what else to say!!!!

The dress my mom wanted was blingy and that just wanst me i wanted something very very soft and romantic whihc is why i went with the Lazaro SEE BELOWl

Im getting Married Posted: May 30, 2010 04:33 PM

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Sorry your mom doesn't seem happy but you have to love it.

It very nice

allornil Posted: May 30, 2010 04:36 PM

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Da-ham! That dress is gorgeous! Im in awe. Dont let your moms attitude get to you. Its your wedding and your dress and she'll get over it.

SoonToBeMrsONeill Posted: May 30, 2010 04:39 PM

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She will get over it... and I'm positive will completely agree that you look gorgeous in it and be glowing the whole time everyone is watching you get married and dance in it :) I wouldn't bring it up again unless she still seems upset in a few days or so.

angelatp Posted: May 30, 2010 05:53 PM

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I love the soft romantic feel of your dress, great choice!!!!

I hope your mother can get over it, I mean it's your day, you really have to love it.

tac30 Posted: May 30, 2010 07:07 PM

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Your dress is gorgeous!!! dont let your mom get to you. Its your wedding and you have to do things your way. Im having the same problem w/ my mom with certain things.

You do what you want!!

CantWaitMrsH Posted: May 30, 2010 07:16 PM

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Do you think that maybe she was more upset that the moment wasnt private? Maybe not the dress?

bebita0830 Posted: May 30, 2010 07:31 PM

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ur dress is gorgeous! i know that ur mom's opinion must be very important to u but don't worry if her opinion and urs is not the same, she will understand that this is UR special day and ultimately shed want whatever makes U happy,

angelscri Posted: May 30, 2010 08:26 PM

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Sorry that your mom isn't happy. But it's hard to please everyone and still get what you want. Your dress is beautiful.

Burhart1111 Posted: May 30, 2010 08:34 PM

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I LOVE it!! Very romantic

Maybe your mom has something else on her mind? Let a little time pass and maybe you will find that it has nothing to do with your dress choice.
Even if it does....You chose a fantastic dress and as long as it makes you feel good...it was the RIGHT choice. Try not to let it get to you (even though I know how hard that can be!)

PazzaRagazza Posted: May 30, 2010 08:58 PM

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Thanx ladies for your input!!! Im gunna give it a couple of days!!!!

PazzaRagazza Posted: May 30, 2010 08:58 PM

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Posted by CantWaitMrsH

Do you think that maybe she was more upset that the moment wasnt private? Maybe not the dress?

I dont think so i asked her from the very beginning if she would be ok with this-- lol and when you see her reaction on tv to the dress you might agree it was the dress!!! LOL

andreahowie2011 Posted: May 31, 2010 09:49 AM

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Your dress and is beautiful! That's rather immature of your mom, sometimes my dad will act like that. She needs to remember it is your day and that you value her input but the ultimate decision is yours.

NellieBellie32 Posted: May 31, 2010 10:24 AM

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that dress is gorgeous....sometimes mothers think its 'thier' day just as much as its yours.....my mom has been known to do that too.....all that matters is that you love it

Tetelove Posted: May 31, 2010 10:29 AM

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I think your mother will comw around....Its about what you love...if you love the Lazaro that focus on the fact that YOU love it. Trust me...when your Mom sees you all dressed up on your big day, she will know you made the right choice.

ellie424 Posted: May 31, 2010 11:24 AM

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Your dress is beautiful!! I would give your mom some time. I'm sure once she gets over the fact that you didn't choose the dress that she loved she will be happy that you found and chose the dress YOU love.

Neeks Posted: May 31, 2010 11:44 AM

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your dress is beautiful.. your mom already had her opportunity to pick a wedding gown.. sorry - dont worry she'll get over it

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: May 31, 2010 12:20 PM

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ITS GORGEOUS!!! YOU have to love it...not Mom!

Moonmist09 Posted: May 31, 2010 12:27 PM

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you and your mom can't agree on everything. she isn't wearing the dress, you are. she will get over it, and on the day of the wedding, the last thing she will be thinking is, 'she should have bought the other dress' she is going to think you look beautiful no matter what.
maybe she really does have other things going on right now too.

PazzaRagazza Posted: May 31, 2010 01:32 PM

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i cant tell you girls how much your encouragement means to me-- i was in such a s h i t t y place mentally i was so upset!! You girls are amazing!!! Im gunna take the dress down just cause-- but i love you guys!!! thanks for making my weekend!!!!