HELP...I'm stressed

I have only 3 weeks until my wedding and I can't get in touch with my preist. I'm getting VERY nervous.

I'm having an interfaith ceremony at my hall and using a rabbi and a preist. I met with both of them a while back and the preist told me to contact him a month or two before the wedding to set up an appt. to go over the details of the ceremony. Well, I have left numerous messages at the parish for him over the past month and he hasn't called me back. I just found out from someone there that his mother died on July 4th so he's been in and out since then. I feel bad leaving a million messages since his mother just died, but all I want is a quick call back so reassure me that he is going to show up for the ceremony.

I contacted the rabbi and he wasn't much help. He said he performed a cereomy with the preist last weekend so he knows he's been around, but didn't offer any help in contacting him.

Any advice????

My advice is to relax! Let a week pass, and then call again. You have time. If you still can't get in touch with him a week before the wedding the rabbi should be able to recommend someone else. And you know what will happen if the priest doesn't show up? You'll still get married to the man you love.