Here is my FSIL drama story......alittle long

Ok so my FH has 2 sisters, One I get along with great and the other one no one seems to get along with. So FH proposed to me back in Oct and his parents made us call her to tell her....after alittle argument he finally called her and the first thing she said was 'are you sure you wanna do this)...WHATEVER....anyway I dont want her in the wedding party and neither does he but his parents are basically making us have her. After they told us that she had to be in the wedding if we where gonna have his other sister, I refused to ask her and he finally did the other night.....she acted so excited but you can tell it was so fake. Anyway to make a long vent short, here is the new thing......
well now she has been dating this guy that she treats like total S*#T (FH doesnt like him either, he is shady and fake ok sorry I am going off track....so now she has been dating this guy and they just got engaged this past weekend. So sunday morning I got a call from FFIL to tell me the news and FH got a call from FMIL to get the news (we where both away this weekend in different places)....we have yet to call her and say Congrats and FH does not want to still. Ok I will end this soon, but first let me explain that I AM NOT JEALOUS of her at all, I just know what I am in for now that we are getting married around the same time. Now we are waiting to see how the planning of this wedding goes..She is very spoiled and its always ME ME ME so I might just need to vent to you girls more often so you can help me through the drama.....thanks for listening, I just needed to vent.

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Well I would be a little annoyed at that too. This whole process of planning a wedding is supposed to be all about you and FH. Now it sounds like it might be shared between you and his sister. I would be pissed as well and probably ask her to move her date to way after yours since you got engaged first. But no matter what keep your cool, ignore her as much as possible, and hopefully this engagement will get cancelled

oh gosh......sorry to hear about that...is she younger or older than you....

lets see how she is with the whole planning...i know they just got engaged but do you know when and around you think they will be getting married....after you i guess....

i would definitely be annoyed to and OMG 18,000 for her ring....maybe his parents have money.....holy smokes.... not sure where else he could have gotten the money

do you think they will get married in 2007

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Posted by Brassgirl9

Well I would be a little annoyed at that too. This whole process of planning a wedding is supposed to be all about you and FH. Now it sounds like it might be shared between you and his sister. I would be pissed as well and probably ask her to move her date to way after yours since you got engaged first. But no matter what keep your cool, ignore her as much as possible, and hopefully this engagement will get cancelled

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FH actually doesnt think its gonna last...its her second time being engaged!!

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Posted by camerakrazie

i would definitely be annoyed to and OMG 18,000 for her ring....maybe his parents have money.....holy smokes.... not sure where else he could have gotten the money

do you think they will get married in 2007

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There is no way he paid that much for the right....thats what I meant by SHADY....so they can live there made up life and tell stories and think that we are actually gonna believe them

P.S. Girls

I hope she doesnt find out about this website...LOL

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Posted by Mdolph6

P.S. Girls

I hope she doesnt find out about this website...LOL

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Oh God whatever you do don't tell her about this site...there goes your venting board right out the window!!!!

I'm sorry you're dealing with this family drama. She sounds like a real pain in the a$$. At least her having a wedding may take some of the pressure and attention (in a good way) off you and FH.

Youl'' always have us to vent to