So for those of you that are new just a lil recap .... first i was having a regular wedding then fh said to me
Lets have a destination wedding .... now that i am finally getting excited about the idea he says
I still dont know where we should get married !!!!!!!!
So basically he doesnt know if he wants a destination wedding or a traditional wedding !!
I COULD JUST KILLL HIM !!!
domibride2010
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Jeez..... men i tell you...hahaha. I say give him a date by which he needs to make a decision by, then go from there. If he cant decide then its all you!! Tell him like I told my FH, 'leave the wedding up to me just supply me the money and show up the day of', he actually agreed to it.
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Posted by domibride2010
Jeez..... men i tell you...hahaha. I say give him a date by which he needs to make a decision by, then go from there. If he cant decide then its all you!! Tell him like I told my FH, 'leave the wedding up to me just supply me the money and show up the day of', he actually agreed to it.
I told him hes has untl the end of the summer .. what kills me is that in the begginnning he wouldnt say a word about the wedding ...he just agreed and gave me the budget ...NOW ever since i told him I wanted him to be a part of it more ....HES GETTING OUTTA CONTROL !!
domibride2010
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WOW girl you shouldve never asked him to chime in LOL. Tell him you no longer need his input, that he is driving you nuts
Reymiliz
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WOW girl you shouldve never asked him to chime in LOL. Tell him you no longer need his input, that he is driving you nuts
LOL ILL TRY BUT HE IS MORE THAN IN THE DOOOR HES KINDA SITTING ON THE COUCH ALREADY LOL
T E R I
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I agree, give him a deadline and then from there take full control. Fh has no real say in the wedding, he just wants to know how much
JoanneAndJustin
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Since FH and I are splitting the wedding down the middle... we both have equal say about everything except colors and flowers, that's all me. When we can't agree on one particular thing, we usually meet in the middle... or make a decision based on price...
Til the end of the summer sounds good. We're going to book everything else around the end of the year.
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why dont you have a destination wedding with just your closest family and friends and then when you get back and a fun casual BBQ?? this way everyone that cant make it to your destination still gets to celebrate with you!
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explore both options and see which one is cheaper?
Goldie39
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[ ...NOW ever since i told him I wanted him to be a part of it more ....HES GETTING OUTTA CONTROL !!
give them an inch and they want a mile, right!?! but i agree w/ everyone else. give him a time limit and then take it into your own hands.
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Boys will be boys. FH is always goes back and forth and this is the line I use:
'I'm the bride so do what I want!!!' I know its a bit bridezilla but this is something I have dreamed about since I was 3!
DnT2010
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Boys will be boys. FH is always goes back and forth and this is the line I use:
'I'm the bride so do what I want!!!' I know its a bit bridezilla but this is something I have dreamed about since I was 3!
OMG i just said this to FH last night!!! i was like 'ive dreamed about my wedding day since i was a little girl.. not you!'
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Yeah, Rey.....you def have to give him a deadline! Also, to be considerate to the people you'll want to be there. So might need time to save $$$$$ if you do decide to go away.
CloudNine
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oh just have both!! have 2 weddings!!! lol
JC297
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What do you want?
Originally it was my dream to get married at Disney World. But after we got engaged I thought about it and I know its a lot of ask for a lot of my family and friends that I would definitely want there.
Most of my friends are married with children and to ask them to spend $$$$$ to come see me get married although I know in heartbeat they would I just didnt think it was fair.
I think eventually we will do a vow renewal in WDW. That way I can have both.
also looking into it, a destination wedding was going to cost the same if not more than having a wedding locally.
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Very frustrating! Both of you should figure out if you would prefer a larger wedding or a more intimate wedding, that will definitely affect whether or not you have a destination wedding or a traditional one
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i agree w/ some others.. maybe you can have a destination wedding and then a smaller reception/party for friends/family that couldn't make it to the actual wedding... so you can have both sorta!
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THANKS FOR THE INPUT LADIES .... we are both paying for the wedding mostly him of course lol so i do love his input so i gave him a deadlne i said until sept and if not then i will be taking control .... :)
domibride2010
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YEY!!! Sept it is
FutureMrsF2010
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Posted by Reymiliz
THANKS FOR THE INPUT LADIES .... we are both paying for the wedding mostly him of course lol so i do love his input so i gave him a deadlne i said until sept and if not then i will be taking control .... :)
