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Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

Original post by Shorty McBride

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Hi Ladies

Think waaaay back to the hall selection process - how involved was FH?!

We've looked at sooo many places, and because FH is a teacher, I find it easier to see places without him sometimes.

Today, for example, I went to Thatched Cottage alone. He didn't even have many questions for me when I came home. He just asked if I liked it.

I told him, YES, and we're going back for a tasting. He just smiled and said OK, it's up to you, babe.

This is driving me crazy!!! He's so easygoing, I actually WANT some involvement!

What about your men?

STBH Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

Posted by kissy27

My FH went to every hall with me! He was the one that asked the majority of the questions plus he was best at negiotating the final number!

ditto he was superinvolved and I was super happy that he was

RadioLau Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

Fh is SUPER involved in everything. (Except flowers and dresses.) He even went to some halls by himself without me. I got a bad sinus infection around the time we were looking and he didn't want to wait. He works in nassau and I work on the east end so it worked out well for him to look at the more western halls without me. The hall we booked he actually went to alone and then brought ME back!

soontobemrsv Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

i looked at a few with my moh, then a bunch with fh, and we both chose the hall together, i was surprised at how impressed fh got over our hall...

Soon2BeMrs2006 Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

My Fh has gone to every appt. with me.

lauren09 Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

my FH came with me to all the halls. i found that he was much more vocal about places that he DIDN'T like. he kept telling me to choose whatever i liked. in the end though, we did make the decision together. it sounds like your FH is a lot like most other guys! i wouldn't worry too much....i bet once you do the tasting he'll have an opinion...most guys are all about the food!

good luck!

Shorty McBride Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

This post is a month old!
We booked, he came with me to all visits to 'our' hall...and he's just as excited as I am now!

CTarantino Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

I totally understand FH is so NOT involved and does not care about things like that and he knows plans will be settled without him. Like invitations was a pain so I narrowed my selection and let him pick from there.
Sorry about FH but I hear it is common regarless of this poll.

DUCKS2001 Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

WE ONLY WENT TO TWO HALLS BUT FELL IN LOVE WITH THE ONE WE ARE GETTING MARRIED AT

MrsStefan Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

FH came with me and was VERY involved in the hall decision making. He wanted to make sure there would be enough food and we wouldnt have to worry about anything throughout the reception

Faith Thread views: 2,410

Re: Hey, can I ask a favor? =) (Poll)

I only looked at two. One, my parents went with me and the hall we chose, I went with FH and my parents. FH picked the photographer, videographer and DJ and my mom and I are pretty much picking out everything else.