HEY EWICKENS/BETSY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Original post by CLMon7906

Aug 31, 2006 03:42 PM

15 MORE DAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm so psyched for our grand entrance to your reception with our table in the center of the dancefloor, the smoke machine blasting and the trap doors that will lift me, Dianne, Kammie and Lauren UP into the room!!!!!!!

eta--change of number of days!

CLMon7906 Posted: Sep 01, 2006 06:32 PM

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Posted by ewickens

Posted by lipglossjunky73

Did I miss something????

LIZA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are you back from Thailand????

She's still there...it was in an earlier thread...some of the places they are at have the internet so she's been checking in.

ewickens Posted: Sep 01, 2006 06:32 PM

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Posted by CLMon7906

Posted by diluvchu

Yeah I may accidentially spill my red wine all over her dress....now that would just be such a shame

You realize I had a wedding-nightmare once about a girlfriend [now fiance] of one of DH's friends doing just that? I seriously almost banned red wine from the wedding!

Back to evil step-sister mode...Betsy, if you post her pic, I'll be sure Dianne has a back up glass in case she misses.

Dianne knows what she looks like. and her picture is in my community album.

October Bliss Posted: Sep 01, 2006 10:59 PM

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Posted by CLMon7906

Posted by diluvchu

Yeah I may accidentially spill my red wine all over her dress....now that would just be such a shame

You realize I had a wedding-nightmare once about a girlfriend [now fiance] of one of DH's friends doing just that? I seriously almost banned red wine from the wedding!

Back to evil step-sister mode...Betsy, if you post her pic, I'll be sure Dianne has a back up glass in case she misses.

Count me in on the red wine backup!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cindyandkevin Posted: Sep 01, 2006 11:10 PM

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Posted by ewickens

Posted by diluvchu

We all can't wait to wear our gowns!!!

you guys won't be the only ones! The BM's gf has informed FH that she wants a white dress to wear to the wedding and her uncle's wedding in Nov. Then my MIL went and shopped with her for one, but they didn't like what they saw, so she's trying estelle's next.

Betsy, if she even TRIES to wear anything remotely resembling white you just call me up and I'll kick her a$$!!!!! I'll come in all ninja-like and take care of her w/out taking any attention away from you and Bob!!

sr081906 Posted: Sep 02, 2006 08:16 PM

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Hello Betsy.... are you freaking out yet?

How are the arrangements going?

ewickens Posted: Sep 02, 2006 09:13 PM

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Posted by cindyandkevin

Posted by ewickens

Posted by diluvchu

We all can't wait to wear our gowns!!!

you guys won't be the only ones! The BM's gf has informed FH that she wants a white dress to wear to the wedding and her uncle's wedding in Nov. Then my MIL went and shopped with her for one, but they didn't like what they saw, so she's trying estelle's next.

Betsy, if she even TRIES to wear anything remotely resembling white you just call me up and I'll kick her a$$!!!!! I'll come in all ninja-like and take care of her w/out taking any attention away from you and Bob!!

I love it!!!!!!!

Can you do it to the BM and groomsmen too as they have kidnapped my FH for the evening when we had wedding stuff to do at the apartment with my parents, so now we're just sitting here doing everything without him!! I'm so livid right now!!!

ETA: at least my girls had the decency to plan a 'BBQ' for me and made sure the day was convenient for the both of us!

ewickens Posted: Sep 02, 2006 09:14 PM

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Posted by sr081906

Hello Betsy.... are you freaking out yet?

How are the arrangements going?

Wedding is paid for. Final arrangement are being taken care of and I'm just -2 weeks from today!!!

ewickens Posted: Sep 02, 2006 09:21 PM

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Posted by CLMon7906

Posted by ewickens

Posted by lipglossjunky73

Did I miss something????

LIZA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Are you back from Thailand????

She's still there...it was in an earlier thread...some of the places they are at have the internet so she's been checking in.

Thanks for letting me know, Cheryl! I got all excited that she was back!

October Bliss Posted: Sep 02, 2006 10:23 PM

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Posted by ewickens

Can you do it to the BM and groomsmen too as they have kidnapped my FH for the evening when we had wedding stuff to do at the apartment with my parents, so now we're just sitting here doing everything without him!! I'm so livid right now!!!

ETA: at least my girls had the decency to plan a 'BBQ' for me and made sure the day was convenient for the both of us!

Betsy I'll be more than happy to kick some butt if you return the favor. I specifically stated that I did NOT want the bachelor party to be the week before the wedding, and guess what?? It is planned for AC Sept 30-October 1 instead of September 23-24!! I was even willing to give up spending my b-day with FH just to make sure it wasn't the week before the wedding. I'm just as livid!!!!!!!

ewickens Posted: Sep 02, 2006 10:29 PM

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Posted by October Bliss

Posted by ewickens

Can you do it to the BM and groomsmen too as they have kidnapped my FH for the evening when we had wedding stuff to do at the apartment with my parents, so now we're just sitting here doing everything without him!! I'm so livid right now!!!

ETA: at least my girls had the decency to plan a 'BBQ' for me and made sure the day was convenient for the both of us!

Betsy I'll be more than happy to kick some butt if you return the favor. I specifically stated that I did NOT want the bachelor party to be the week before the wedding, and guess what?? It is planned for AC Sept 30-October 1 instead of September 23-24!! I was even willing to give up spending my b-day with FH just to make sure it wasn't the week before the wedding. I'm just as livid!!!!!!!

Thanks Darlene!!!!!!!!! Guys have no common sense. My mother is here helping me put everything together and I don't even care that Bob wanted a say in this. It's done. If he can't stand up to his friends, then why the he*ll should I allow these guys who are irresponsible to be anywhere near me on the day of my wedding??? What's worse - the guys wanted strippers when both Bob and I vocalized loudly to everyone we didn't want them, so I'm so disgusted with them right now. I so don't even want them in the wedding right now! And there's no blech icon!

I feel your pain, Darlene! I'll come kick some as*s for you too!

CLMon7906 Posted: Sep 02, 2006 10:32 PM

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Betsy, I think a blech icon is too minimal for your anger right now....try this one on.

JERKS.

ewickens Posted: Sep 02, 2006 10:36 PM

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Posted by CLMon7906

Betsy, I think a blech icon is too minimal for your anger right now....try this one on.

JERKS.

Thanks, Cheryl!!!!!! His brother and friends will hear a mouthful from me about this and I'm so ready to pull the anchor out on Bob working with the band days leading up to this wedding. He's never home lately to help!

Who did the OOT bags, who's doing the placecards, who is making the appt's and going to the vendors ALONE (except my parents decided to come in 1 day early when they found out I was going alone). I'm so through with this!

October Bliss Posted: Sep 02, 2006 10:40 PM

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Posted by ewickens

Thanks Darlene!!!!!!!!! Guys have no common sense. My mother is here helping me put everything together and I don't even care that Bob wanted a say in this. It's done. If he can't stand up to his friends, then why the he*ll should I allow these guys who are irresponsible to be anywhere near me on the day of my wedding??? What's worse - the guys wanted strippers when both Bob and I vocalized loudly to everyone we didn't want them, so I'm so disgusted with them right now. I so don't even want them in the wedding right now! And there's no blech icon!

In fairness to Bob, I have to ask if he was 'kidnapped' or knew they were planning his b-party for tonight?? If he knew, you're 100% right about him standing up against his friends, but if he didn't know the b-party was tonight, how could he really say no when it was planned and they were all ready to go??

Jay's b-party is being planned for Atlantic City, and the BM asked when would be good, and I specifically said I didn't want it to be the week before the wedding, I wanted it to be Sept 23-24, and Thursday night FH found out it is currently planned for the weekend before the wedding and didn't say anything to the BM about trying to make it the other weekend. AND, his response to me was 'well I told you it would most likely be that weekend' Yea, and I said, I DON'T want it to be the weekend before the wedding to both the FH and the BM!!! (then again the BM would be the same drunk who cost us the tournament in Vegas, so I don't know why I expected anything better out of him!)

ewickens Posted: Sep 02, 2006 10:46 PM

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Posted by October Bliss

Posted by ewickens

Thanks Darlene!!!!!!!!! Guys have no common sense. My mother is here helping me put everything together and I don't even care that Bob wanted a say in this. It's done. If he can't stand up to his friends, then why the he*ll should I allow these guys who are irresponsible to be anywhere near me on the day of my wedding??? What's worse - the guys wanted strippers when both Bob and I vocalized loudly to everyone we didn't want them, so I'm so disgusted with them right now. I so don't even want them in the wedding right now! And there's no blech icon!

In fairness to Bob, I have to ask if he was 'kidnapped' or knew they were planning his b-party for tonight?? If he knew, you're 100% right about him standing up against his friends, but if he didn't know the b-party was tonight, how could he really say no when it was planned and they were all ready to go??

Jay's b-party is being planned for Atlantic City, and the BM asked when would be good, and I specifically said I didn't want it to be the week before the wedding, I wanted it to be Sept 23-24, and Thursday night FH found out it is currently planned for the weekend before the wedding and didn't say anything to the BM about trying to make it the other weekend. AND, his response to me was 'well I told you it would most likely be that weekend' Yea, and I said, I DON'T want it to be the weekend before the wedding to both the FH and the BM!!! (then again the BM would be the same drunk who cost us the tournament in Vegas, so I don't know why I expected anything better out of him!)

Bob knew something was up and was afraid to ask over the last few days since he saw the guys Thursday and told them my parents were in town and would be unavailable all weekend and the guys made some comments under their breath. So, he has my parents take us to dinner, complaining that we made him go to Church tonight, then called the guys from my parent's cell phone at the dinner table at the restaurant, then when my parents asked if they could go to Best Buy with him, he got all pissed b/c it was supposed to be a guys thing to meet there to get some things and then go out - I looked at him and said this was completely and utterly irresponsible and rude and he just shrugged his shoulders while all the guys showed up at the store and he told me to go home and take my parents with me.

Thank god my parents didn't hear any of this - I'm so ready to scream at all of them.

October Bliss Posted: Sep 02, 2006 10:53 PM

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Posted by ewickens

Bob knew something was up and was afraid to ask over the last few days since he saw the guys Thursday and told them my parents were in town and would be unavailable all weekend and the guys made some comments under their breath. So, he has my parents take us to dinner, complaining that we made him go to Church tonight, then called the guys from my parent's cell phone at the dinner table at the restaurant, then when my parents asked if they could go to Best Buy with him, he got all pissed b/c it was supposed to be a guys thing to meet there to get some things and then go out - I looked at him and said this was completely and utterly irresponsible and rude and he just shrugged his shoulders while all the guys showed up at the store and he told me to go home and take my parents with me.

Thank god my parents didn't hear any of this - I'm so ready to scream at all of them.

Okay. I don't think Cheryl's little emoticon sufficiently captures the anger!!