Hey girls...could you post...

I sent them each an individualized personal note.. telling them what they meant to me, mentioning some fun memories, etc. At the end of it- was my question.. Mailed each note to them- so it was a nice surprise..

Then I invited them all over to brunch, so I could have them all together--

My MOH and I have been friend's for over 20 years. We decided years ago that we would be each other's MOH. Funny, I don't think I ever asked her I just started calling her about plans

Sorry, can't help with bridesmaids not having any but I do think a nice handwritten note/letter about what they mean to you would be lovely.

Funny u asked. I just finished doing my little creative thing. I found this cute poem online and printed them on cards. On outside I printed, 'would you be my bridesmaid?'
and added a cute scrapbook sticker of a dress.
Then Inside cover I added,Save the Date:
(our date and names).

Im fun and creative like that at times. I hope they all like it even though majortiy of the girls do know already.

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Posted by divabride

I bought cute little white bears in wedding dresses and I glued a little banner that said 'will you be my bridesmaid?'. I presented them to the girls on christmas day as part of their gifts. This was minutes after we had just announced our engagement.

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That is so cute!

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Posted by DCSAAB06

Funny u asked. I just finished doing my little creative thing. I found this cute poem online and printed them on cards. On outside I printed, 'would you be my bridesmaid?'
and added a cute scrapbook sticker of a dress.
Then Inside cover I added,Save the Date:
(our date and names).

Im fun and creative like that at times. I hope they all like it even though majortiy of the girls do know already.

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That sounds like a cute idea. Do you have pics to share? Where did you get the cards?

MY sisters already knew, and my best friend and cousin knew right off the bat. but i sent cards to my best friend, cousin, and 2 other friends that had a funny poem, that asked them. It was appropriate for my old sorority sistes.
(Name), you have helped me through some trying times,
Spared some change when I did not have a dime,
Held my hair back after prom and swore you would never tell my mom,
We have fought over boys (only God knows why),
We have laughed together and we have even cried.
So, please if you’ll do just one more little task,
I promise that this is all I will ever ask:
Will you wear a dress of (color), while I will wear my dress of white - -
Say you will be my bridesmaid on my special wedding night?

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Posted by Laura1976

(Name), you have helped me through some trying times,
Spared some change when I did not have a dime,
Held my hair back after prom and swore you would never tell my mom,
We have fought over boys (only God knows why),
We have laughed together and we have even cried.
So, please if you’ll do just one more little task,
I promise that this is all I will ever ask:
Will you wear a dress of (color), while I will wear my dress of white - -
Say you will be my bridesmaid on my special wedding night?

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That's great!

So far we have only asked the MOH and BM - we invited them over for dinner and gave them these cards:

I gave them flowers. I only have 1 MOH and 1 BM so it's the three of us

I asked them at the engagment party. I gave my MOH an organized book so she could help me with planning.

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Posted by FutureMrsH

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Posted by DCSAAB06

Funny u asked. I just finished doing my little creative thing. I found this cute poem online and printed them on cards. On outside I printed, 'would you be my bridesmaid?'
and added a cute scrapbook sticker of a dress.
Then Inside cover I added,Save the Date:
(our date and names).

Im fun and creative like that at times. I hope they all like it even though majortiy of the girls do know already.

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That sounds like a cute idea. Do you have pics to share? Where did you get the cards?

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Let me see If I can send a pic.
Its not finished product yet, ok?
The cards I bought at Michaels(or Staples)
and added the touch of the dress.

Ok, Im not doing something right! So sorry!
Give me a few min here.

i didnt do anything. it was kinda known.

jenn

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Posted by Janine24

I really didn't do anything special... in fact I don't totally remeber it... I just asked them whether on the phone or in person (some of them were out of state)...

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i asked them all in person!

I only have my sister as my MOH, and my future SIL as a bridesmaid. I just kinda sai it to them in conversation. We are planning to do a luncheon type thing with our bridal party and givning them some nice gifts though.


P.S......I love the idea of the bears (divabride)!