Hey Ladies... I wanted to pass along something that's helped me :)
I know with the economy getting worse and worse that sometimes we have to cut back on our luxury...
However, with that beng said, please consider doing what fh and I have been doing since we got engaged... It certainly has helped put our minds into perspective, and in all honesty, has helped the two of us get on the same page...
A couple friend of ours was going for couples therapy and said that their therapist told them to begin Surprise Date night, once a month, and alternate whose turn it is! You are not allowed to talk about anything wedding related....
At first I was against it... and said 'It will never work' But 7 months later, and 8 months to the wedding, it really has been something that has helped us... It gets our mind off of work and things like that, and best of all, gives us something to look forward to each month. It's helped the stress ease up also.
Hopefully it will help you girls as the wedding process continues. I only wish we would have started sooner!!
-Jenny09
However, with that beng said, please consider doing what fh and I have been doing since we got engaged... It certainly has helped put our minds into perspective, and in all honesty, has helped the two of us get on the same page...
A couple friend of ours was going for couples therapy and said that their therapist told them to begin Surprise Date night, once a month, and alternate whose turn it is! You are not allowed to talk about anything wedding related....
At first I was against it... and said 'It will never work' But 7 months later, and 8 months to the wedding, it really has been something that has helped us... It gets our mind off of work and things like that, and best of all, gives us something to look forward to each month. It's helped the stress ease up also.
Hopefully it will help you girls as the wedding process continues. I only wish we would have started sooner!!
-Jenny09
