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hey ladies im scareeeedddd

Original post by OLA

OLA Posted:

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im not stressing anything too much and mayybe i shouldd me.......uh oh i have a problem

sassygirl9 Posted:

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Don't be scared it will be fine. I know it can all seem overwhelming at first. Make a list of what is important to you and book your vendors from there.

I know when I first came on here, it heightened my stress, because I thought I was late for everything...lol..... My fiance used to get mad at me for freaking out. I used to lose sleep over things like color, dress style, etc. After a while I began to think how silly I was being. Everyone does things at their own pace. If someone can book all their big vendors over a year in advance then great! Just like someone can book a vendor with months to spare.

I've seen all kinds of weddings planned on here, on different time lines. So make your own time line and go from there.

There are some great vendors on here, but they're not the only ones, there's hundreds/thousands of others.

I'm currently at the 6th month mark and just booked my photog. Now I'm done with the vendors...lol!!! I booked who I wanted and didn't settle, nor do I feel like I missed out.

So take a deep breath and enjoy this time. It really is fun and the girls on here are great. I've learned a great deal from there because I'm a Manhattanite....lol....

Don't hesitate to ask for tips, everyone will answer
LoveisBliss Posted:

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Posted by sassygirl9

Don't be scared it will be fine. I know it can all seem overwhelming at first. Make a list of what is important to you and book your vendors from there.

I know when I first came on here, it heightened my stress, because I thought I was late for everything...lol..... My fiance used to get mad at me for freaking out. I used to lose sleep over things like color, dress style, etc. After a while I began to think how silly I was being. Everyone does things at their own pace. If someone can book all their big vendors over a year in advance then great! Just like someone can book a vendor with months to spare.

I've seen all kinds of weddings planned on here, on different time lines. So make your own time line and go from there.

There are some great vendors on here, but they're not the only ones, there's hundreds/thousands of others.

I'm currently at the 6th month mark and just booked my photog. Now I'm done with the vendors...lol!!! I booked who I wanted and didn't settle, nor do I feel like I missed out.

So take a deep breath and enjoy this time. It really is fun and the girls on here are great. I've learned a great deal from there because I'm a Manhattanite....lol....

Don't hesitate to ask for tips, everyone will answer



Yeah everybody has their own pace.. I've had friends plan a wedding in less than a years time... and they turned out great!

have you booked anything so far?
OLA Posted:

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awww thanxxx im so new and i lovee this siteeee
Collweenie21 Posted:

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Yes don't worry! You have plenty of time!!!

OLA Posted:

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ok so i have a photographer, videographer, a band and our reception halll ooo and lets not forget i have my dress which is probably the most exciting parttt

Collweenie21 Posted:

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Thats ok!!! You still have 8 months! 2 of my girlfriends who are getting married planned in that time! And my cousin planned her gorgeous wedding in 5!

OLA Posted:

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yea i guess your right maybe i should be more relaxed everything will fall into place like you ladies said im just so excited and nervous at the same time i have all these different emotions

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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don't be scared..everything will be fine! you have lots of time and we're always here if you need anything ! HUGS!
OLA Posted:

another question

i have another questionnnn wat type of make-up are most of u girls planning on getting done? airbrush?

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by OLA

i have another questionnnn wat type of make-up are most of u girls planning on getting done? airbrush?


i think its mixed for the most part..im getting regular
OLA Posted:

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can i ask about your makeup? should i be doing a trial like now?? everyone ive seen have used oksana who is she and where??

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by OLA

can i ask about your makeup? should i be doing a trial like now?? everyone ive seen have used oksana who is she and where??



the more popular vendors book fast so it wouldn't hurt..im using oksana !! shes awesome!! shes located in freshmeadows queens
OLA Posted:

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ive noticed manyyy girls are using herr maybe i should do a trial this may be a dumb question but how much do u pay for a trial?

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by OLA

ive noticed manyyy girls are using herr maybe i should do a trial this may be a dumb question but how much do u pay for a trial?



50 for makeup 50 for hair
OLA Posted:

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ok she does hair too?

xXxNovember08xXx Posted:

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u are so scared saying that you feel like you ahve nothign done.. but you have ALOT done already.

u have more than i do!

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by OLA

ok she does hair too?



no jenn does hair,..they work side by side!
OLA Posted:

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i wish i could leave my hair down but itss so long and thin i think itll just fall apart and i dont want it covering too much of my dress

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Posted by OLA

i wish i could leave my hair down but itss so long and thin i think itll just fall apart and i dont want it covering too much of my dress



my hair is really thick and i have alot of detail in my dress..so im doing half up!

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