hi ladies...BM question

WeddingBellsIn08 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:13 PM

hi ladies...BM question

MAY24BRIDE Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:16 PM

Re: hi ladies...

I'm going to post my bm dilemma, but it's along the same lines....I feel like maybe I should have thought about it more before asking people

WeddingBellsIn08 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:17 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

FH and I were so excited. We couldnt wait to ask everyone. She and I were soooo close and we are so much alike too.

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:20 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

i know u! lol hmmm but thats def a tough one bc if u kick her out ull probably never talk again bc im sure shell be hurt..but if u really just dont care about her anymore then i would just bc u dont want to look back at your wedding pictures and wish that she wasnt in all of them u know?

WeddingBellsIn08 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:23 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

i wouldnt kick her out. I just think i should have thought more about it b4 i did it. i dont want to lose her friendship so i will keep it as is. no big deal.

No PP for you???

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:23 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

Is she still involved with your wedding planning or anything...like do you still talk?

Maybe ask her to hang out more often..kinda rekindle the friendship.

I have one person I regret asking, but she took care of that by not returning my calls...lol

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:25 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

Posted by WeddingBellsIn08

i wouldnt kick her out. I just think i should have thought more about it b4 i did it. i dont want to lose her friendship so i will keep it as is. no big deal.

No PP for you???

nope i wanted to go but im completely broke... i think ill be staying in from now till the wedding lol ..well except for maybe a few cheap dinner gtg's lol

SugaBeans Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:26 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

Posted by WeddingBellsIn08

i wouldnt kick her out. I just think i should have thought more about it b4 i did it. i dont want to lose her friendship so i will keep it as is. no big deal.

No PP for you???

nope i wanted to go but im completely broke... i think ill be staying in from now till the wedding lol ..well except for maybe a few cheap dinner gtg's lol

gotcha. Same here

kristi313 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:26 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

i think it probably depends on which direction you want the friendship to go in ya know? something like this could totally end the friendship, unless she feels the same way.

mathteach Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:27 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

Posted by kristi313

i think it probably depends on which direction you want the friendship to go in ya know? something like this could totally end the friendship, unless she feels the same way.

Great advice.

kristi313 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:28 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

Posted by WeddingBellsIn08

i wouldnt kick her out. I just think i should have thought more about it b4 i did it. i dont want to lose her friendship so i will keep it as is. no big deal.

No PP for you???

nope i wanted to go but im completely broke... i think ill be staying in from now till the wedding lol ..well except for maybe a few cheap dinner gtg's lol

2 fer's?

kristi313 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:29 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

Posted by mathteach

Posted by kristi313

i think it probably depends on which direction you want the friendship to go in ya know? something like this could totally end the friendship, unless she feels the same way.

Great advice.

:::curtsy:::

ILOVEBRIAN2008 Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:30 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

Posted by kristi313

Posted by ILOVEBRIAN2008

Posted by WeddingBellsIn08

i wouldnt kick her out. I just think i should have thought more about it b4 i did it. i dont want to lose her friendship so i will keep it as is. no big deal.

No PP for you???

nope i wanted to go but im completely broke... i think ill be staying in from now till the wedding lol ..well except for maybe a few cheap dinner gtg's lol

2 fer's?

exactly!

mathteach Posted: Dec 01, 2007 10:30 PM

Re: hi ladies...BM question

Posted by kristi313

Posted by mathteach

Posted by kristi313

i think it probably depends on which direction you want the friendship to go in ya know? something like this could totally end the friendship, unless she feels the same way.

Great advice.

:::curtsy:::