His parents...

Are throwing us an engagement brunch....

Theyre covering the costs. They're a lot better off financially then my parents and My parents are feeling 'out of the loop'. my dad confessed he feels he should be giving something and unfortuntely they can't. They're in a very bad situation right now. I told him not worry. Especially about the wedding because FH and I are covering it but My parents don't feel like theyre apart of this wedding which I know is hurting them and me too. I include them in all my decisions, especially mom and my baby sister is my MOH. both my brothers are groomsmen but I know my dad wishes he had the money to contribute...

I want him to feel like he doesn't have to and the only important thing is him giving me away but its that spanish machismo thing...i don't know!

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Posted by InLuvWithMyBF

oh and both sets of parents names are going on the invite because that's the way we want it. we don't care who's paying for what.

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GOOD! That's a good idea. I'm going through teh same thing, only it's FH's parents who aren't contributing. Just include them in every decision you make to make them feel like they're 'participating'

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Posted by InLuvWithMyBF

oh and both sets of parents names are going on the invite because that's the way we want it. we don't care who's paying for what.

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So are mine. Technically, my invite has my parents as the hosts when my FH and I are the one's paying for everything. We just wanted to keep it traditional. Do whatever YOU want.