I just said goodbye to my dad who is going back to puerto rico tomorrow...I've been crying about that. found out my girls are planning my Bparty and are getting a hotel room for it and it sounds like there will be a stripper involved...I'm really really bothered by this.I really really don't like strippers. to top it all its day 1 of aunt flo's visit and I'm just an emotional mess.
mariana881
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aaaaw, im sorry you arent feeling well Is there anyway you can mention to your BMs that you don't want a stripper? I think that is something that should be your choice... I always feel like a wreck when aunt flo comes to town.
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oh man.....im sorry about both of these sitautions....I am not sure I have anything to make your dad leaving any better...as far as your bach party....have you mentioned that this would not be something you are into?
mnd1202
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aww did u tell ur girls u dont like that idea???
MRSin2009
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aww sorry to hear that. I am so not into the stripper thing also I will be letting them all know.
MrsK2008
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that stinks that you miss your father! I hope that you voiced you opinion about strippers, I loath them too.
Maybe they are just teasing you to get you all riled up!!
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they asked ' is there anything you want or don't want' I said 'I'm really not into strippers, men in banana hammocks just don't do it for me' and i don't agree with ogling other half naked men in lust right before getting married. in fact it blows my mind that the two celebrations are linked. I guess I'm gonna hafta be the party pooper in the corner.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Posted by Soon2beAlberti
they asked ' is there anything you want or don't want' I said 'I'm really not into strippers, men in banana hammocks just don't do it for me' and i don't agree with ogling other half naked men in lust right before getting married me. in fact it blows my mind that the two celebrations are linked. I guess I'm gonna hafta be the party pooper in the corner.
OMG thats such a shame! I would have the same reaction... They should have understaood that this isnt something you want, but unfortunately these parties end up becoming all about everyone but the bride and groom.... I know thats how bachelor parties are at least!
mariana881
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Posted by Soon2beAlberti
they asked ' is there anything you want or don't want' I said 'I'm really not into strippers, men in banana hammocks just don't do it for me' and i don't agree with ogling other half naked men in lust right before getting married. in fact it blows my mind that the two celebrations are linked. I guess I'm gonna hafta be the party pooper in the corner.
My problem with strippers for bachlorette parties is that they single out the bachlorette and can get pretty raunchy... i would really say something to your BMs, there are lots of ways of throwing a great bachlorette party w/out any strippers...
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your bm's should really respect that fact that you do not want to have a stripper...I know I donot want one and they are not getting it.....hopefully it will all work out.,
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Sorry you are feeling so blue I think you should talk to your girls again and just let them know you REALLY don't want one. Sometimes people trying to 'do good' will push past the line w/o even realizing
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i'm sorry. u should tell your BM that u don't want a stripper.
Ayne11
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LOL maybe make up a story that a girl at work didn't want a stripper and they got one anyway and she had a horrible time. Make sure you throw in there that you thought is was tacky.... LOL
