HM surprise

M_Berk-Glenn Posted: Aug 03, 2009 07:58 PM

HM surprise

FH and I are getting married on a cruise (NCL) After the ceremony and the cocktail hour we will depart on a 7night cruise.

I wanted to surprise FH with a week long stay @ Sandals when we returned from the cruise. Im concerned that a two week HM maybe too long for him...Im afraid he may get bored or be overwhelmed.

Suggestions & opinions needed

RitasEngaged Posted: Aug 03, 2009 08:01 PM

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I think only you can answer that knowing how youf FH gets

SummerBride10 Posted: Aug 03, 2009 08:02 PM

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I wouldnt do it..just in case. I'd be worried that he may have a negative reaction to it.

StaceYums81 Posted: Aug 03, 2009 08:15 PM

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save it as a 1 year anniverserary prize and book it then

mosh424 Posted: Aug 03, 2009 08:29 PM

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Posted by SummerBride10

I wouldnt do it..just in case. I'd be worried that he may have a negative reaction to it.

ITA

SoonToBMrsC Posted: Aug 03, 2009 08:29 PM

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This is a hard question for any but you to answer. You are the only one that knows your FH and if you even have an ounce of feeling that he may get 'bored or overwhelmed' well then I would just go with my gut and probably not do it. Good Luck!!

WeddingGem Posted: Aug 03, 2009 09:12 PM

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Posted by StaceYums81

save it as a 1 year anniverserary prize and book it then

this seems like a good idea

TheFutureMrsPM Posted: Aug 03, 2009 10:54 PM

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I think like the other girls said it is really hard for us to answer b/c it depends on ur FH. My FH LOVES vacation if I did this he would be a very happy person. It just depends on ur FH

pjankowski Posted: Aug 04, 2009 12:32 AM

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If you don't think FH will be 100% into.. I would save it. Go on a 2nd HM.... at a time good for both of you.. where you know he will enjoy it. Sandals is SOOOO great!