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Hmph.

kris_gets_hitched Posted:

Hmph.

So, FMIL is totally jerking around FH and I.

It's been almost a year () since we booked the RH (well, it will be a year in April) and she has yet to give us a guest list.

We spoke with her on Friday about it and she was suppossed to have it for him to pick up last night. He drove over there and....nada. Nothing. At. All.

Initially, she wanted to throw a separate reception. But for the past few months she's told us that she just wants it all done at our RH in one day. (It's Indian tradition to have two parties.)

Now she wants to hold a separate party. As of, um...yesterday.

So the Indian dresses I was so excited about last week? I'm guessing that it's not intended for me to wear that to the wedding at our RH.

I'll find that out tonight. However, while that might be her intention, I will somehow finagle that dress into MY closet and wear it at the wedding that FH and I, collectively with my parents, will be throwing.

I told FH that tonight I am going over there, with or without him (though he insists on being there) to speak with her. There's a new Head B!tch in Charge now.

The silver lining in this is that since she's been such a slow-@ss with giving us a list, I have added on a handful of you lovely LIW ladies. I initially wanted to do this, contingent on what his side of the list looked like. Oh well - you wait months and months to give me a list well....now I want to invite some of my favorite amateur wedding planners who will eat, drink and either be married already or almost married. Que cera cera!
halfbaked Posted:

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Good luck tonight! That's insane!! Though FMIL still hasn't given us any concrete list either. Good for you for standing up for yourself though!
mariedsgn Posted:

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oh man kris!
asg450 Posted:

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I feel your pain, FMIL also took a long a$$ time giving me her guest list. She was still adding people on even after I sent the invites to print; I was like sorry you've had since June and it is now January.

I say you wear your outfit for the wedding at the RH, that is what you want to do so do it. I hope everything goes well tonight for you. Just remember keep your cool and be the better person.

What to do with these Indian FMIL's of ours.
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Posted by asg450
What to do with these Indian FMIL's of ours.



Seriously. I am ready to just send them off on an iceberg to drift in the frigid water.

As I was typing this post, I thought about your post last night.

They're friggin' NUTS, I tell you!
asg450 Posted:

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched


Posted by asg450
What to do with these Indian FMIL's of ours.



Seriously. I am ready to just send them off on an iceberg to drift in the frigid water.

As I was typing this post, I thought about your post last night.

They're friggin' NUTS, I tell you!



Can you put my FMIL on that iceberg also, PLEASE!!!
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Posted by asg450


Posted by kris_gets_hitched


Posted by asg450
What to do with these Indian FMIL's of ours.



Seriously. I am ready to just send them off on an iceberg to drift in the frigid water.

As I was typing this post, I thought about your post last night.

They're friggin' NUTS, I tell you!



Can you put my FMIL on that iceberg also, PLEASE!!!



Notice I said 'send them'...not 'send her'...
MikesBride2B Posted:

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HBIC!!!!!!!!! YOU GO GUUUUUURL!!!!!


If you need reinforcements just send for me, you know I'll come and stand behind you and look tough (with my azz kicking boots on, of course!!!)
AngnShaun Posted:

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you go HBIC!!!!

marinai7 Posted:

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Oh goodness, sorry you have to deal with this nonsense. Hope you get some favorable answers tonight. Good luck.
JAAMS Posted:

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oh man, what a fiasco

i hope it gets sorted out
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Posted by MikesBride2B

HBIC!!!!!!!!! YOU GO GUUUUUURL!!!!!


If you need reinforcements just send for me, you know I'll come and stand behind you and look tough (with my azz kicking boots on, of course!!!)



Thanks! I'd totally owe you a month's worth of 3 cheese ziti marinara!
MikesBride2B Posted:

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched


Posted by MikesBride2B

HBIC!!!!!!!!! YOU GO GUUUUUURL!!!!!


If you need reinforcements just send for me, you know I'll come and stand behind you and look tough (with my azz kicking boots on, of course!!!)



Thanks! I'd totally owe you a month's worth of 3 cheese ziti marinara!



That's a lot more ziti than you might think
01ELLIE Posted:

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good luck talking to her! as long as FH is on your side then let her know who's in charge!!!!
jennybee Posted:

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Go Kris Go!!!
I really hope all goes well. We're here for you!!!

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