Honeymoon help!!

Ok ladies, I need some honeymoon advice!
I've been driving myself crazy trying to find the best place to go...
We want a beautiful beach, blue waters, a great room with privacy and on ocean view balcony. Also, preferably all inclusive with good food options.
I know it's a lot to ask, but it is our honeymoon AND our first vacation together ever. We have done day trips to PA and a week in the Midwest visiting family. Soooo, this being our first big vacation together and first vacation alone we want it to be perfect!

We have been looking at Sandals Antigua & Sandals St.Lucia.
Anyone have reviews or opinions on Sandals resorts?

Also, looking at Aruba. The Divi, The Riu Palace or Occidental.
Any thoughts on these?

We also aren't opposesed to the virgin islands.

Any help and advice for someone who has done zero traveling . . Is greatly appreciated!

Thanks girls!!

I'm going to Aruba! Staying at the Radisson,,,so I can only comment on Aruba...

I heard the Divi is nice, but it's far removed from the rest of the hotels...it depends on what you are looking for, or if that matters to you. I heard great things about the Riu Palace and Occidental...those are both on the 'more crowded' hotels list.

We were going with the Riu for the longest time, but decided to not do all inclusive and booked the Radisson....HTH!