Hotel at RH

I'm having a hard time deciding if my FH and I want to stay at the place we are getting married the night of the wedding (they have an INN there). The reason being.... I would need to stay there the night before the wedding (alone) -- but my family will be in 2 other rooms at the same place -- and then again with my FH the night of the wedding. My dilemma is.. we are planning to start taking pictures 3:30 the day of my wedding, so I need to have the hair and make up girl come to the room at least by 11? maybe even sooner? Plus, they are also doing my mom and sisters hair....

Also, if we stay at another hotel, it would be cheaper for the rooms, however we would have to get limos.

So, my thought process is....do I want to be at my RH all weekend? including the night before? (which there could be a wedding going on....) Anyone else getting married in a similar type hall and decide not to stay there?

Sorry so long.....it's something so silly that I'm having the hardest time deciding. Just wanted to get some ideas