Do we have to pay for the hotel rooms for our out of town guests??? because one family alone is like 15 people...we dont know if we can afford that
Im getting Married
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We are not because we can not afford it. Plus we do not have many OOT guests but we did it for friends that might not want to drive back to Queens ro Brooklyn
Corinne Ann
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we are not... we have gone to out of state wedding and no one ever paid for ours....
kimmaymb20
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Absolutley not.
MrsVtoBe
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You definitely don't have to pay for out of town guests!! that would be way too expensive!!
NellieBellie32
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no way....if i had to pay for their hotel id just say stay home...lol (jk) that would be way too much money
rendel
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hell no!!!!!
wedding_girl
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No. I remember when I went to my cousin's wedding out of state I paid for my own hotel room.
BellaFiore
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no way! If you block rooms, you are already getting them a discount, so that will help them a little.
angelabarra12
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no i dont think you should have to do that! its not your responsibility...hopefully the people will still wanna be thhere for you day and come!
chreesta
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No! You can block the hotel rooms to try and get a discounted rate for them!
harts2976
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I almost choked when I saw this!!! I hope not. We have A LOT of out of town guest. plus we have a bunch of people just staying at the hotel near there just to party after!!
jaimeann34
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ok i thought so..but someone i was talking to this week told me that we should...and its been bothering me allll week..hahah....
Jessc4985
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I do not know anyone that is.... we are not either!
FutureJOC
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not at all. The hotel is there as an option for your guests if they want to stay there - you don't have to pay for it though.
What brides normally would do is after they know the number of rooms booked, you can make Welcome Bags for your guests for each room.
Chanwich
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no way! FHs whole side is from out of town so we would be broke. I really don't think anyone expects you to pay for it. I've always paid for my own when I go to OOT weddings
lau11888
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We're not and I don't know anyone who is. No ones even brought that idea to our attention.
JTG4EVER
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No absolutely not. I am not paying for the hotel. I blocked rooms as a hotel near my RH so that they would get a cheaper rate. And I will do welcome bags in the rooms. But I will not being paying for them. Out of town guests assume that they will pay. It's part of coming to the wedding.
