How are the people around you acting during all this wedding planning? Do you feel you have been treated better or worse? Has anyone told you you have changed?
little j
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not really. i limit alot of my wedding discussions to LIW...or wait till im asked. i try not to dominate conversations with this stuff
we have heard that we are almost done with planning, since we have the major vendors booked. but, of course, that is a far cry from being true. lol
TheFutureMrsPM
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In general people are really into it - asking a lot of questions and willing to helpvout. Except for FILS who pretty much say and do nothing. and no one has told me that I changed
AdriandSteve
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Posted by little j
not really. i limit alot of my wedding discussions to LIW...or wait till im asked. i try not to dominate conversations with this stuff
we have heard that we are almost done with planning, since we have the major vendors booked. but, of course, that is a far cry from being true. lol
Same here. I don't talk about it unless someone else brings it up. My family seems very happy and excited and so does FH's (esp his sister!) My co-workers are excited too.
As for our friends... eh lol. No one really brings it up much cuz there is a lot of other stuff going on in their lives.
Lsorrent
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Most of our friends and family are pretty interested and involved, so they don't seem to mind too much when I do talk about it. But I try not to make it the ONLY topic of conversation all the time.
jayepyt
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they dont care about it so iam done talking about when it is i have 1 bm who asks me about the plans and it makes me feel so good that someone cares
SuzanneK
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I try not to talk about it unless I am asked. I dont like forcing people to listen to me. People have treated me the same as they always have. For me its cool because alot of our friends are also getting married.
20mrsc10
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i talk about it with fh and my 2 bridesmaids-not my mohs haha..other than that its you girls
actually its funny-the other night we booked our videographer, who met us at fils, and after he leaves ffil looks at me and goes-hey you must feel great you're basically all done now!
im like i can show you the list i swear..800000 things left to do!!
kris_gets_hitched
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The same as usual. I limit discussions about it to FH, my sister (she's my MOH) and my best friend (my BM). I talk more with my best friend about details, since she lives here in NYC and my sister lives in FL; she's naturally taking the reigns on helping me with things that my sister cannot logisticallyhelp me with due to geographical distance. I'm vague about plans with almost everyone else. My mom and dad ask about the details and give me money here and there, with the stipulation of doing a good amount of research on vendors' reputations, price quotes and comfort with a vendor before booking. Which is what I'd do anyway!
ETA: Of course, I talk about it here in LIW too, LOL!
T E R I
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I keep the wedding talk limited to those that ask about it and to LIW other than that i don't really talk about the wedding
stinenandy2010
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Nah no difference. I know that me, my mom and sister sometimes get a little stressed with all the planning and it getting so close, but thats to be expected.
Lisalana
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I don't really talk about it unless people ask. I especially hate getting into wedding convos at work - I won't be inviting too many coworkers so I feel weird talking about. I also find that too many people like to give their unsolicited and very strong opinions.
babsbeark
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I can say maybe cause its still far away but no one seems to ask questions
My un married friends think it’s crazy I am planning so early so I try not to talk to them about it cause I don’t want anyone giving me attitude when talking about my most important day so it’s really just on here and a few select friends and family
MrsC2010
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Posted by little j
not really. i limit alot of my wedding discussions to LIW...or wait till im asked. i try not to dominate conversations with this stuff
we have heard that we are almost done with planning, since we have the major vendors booked. but, of course, that is a far cry from being true. lol
fh's family keeps telling us why didnt we move the wedding up bc we are done with everything....im like ughhh are u crazy....we have 1,001 things left to do!!!
christine2010
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as others have said i will only talk about it when asked. i don't really like telling people what i am doing because you get too many opinions that way. if someone asks me how the planning is going i will tell them. mostly i talk about everything with my mom & my sister & you girls on LIW.
grrulz
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I keep the wedding talk limited to those that ask about it and to LIW other than that i don't really talk about the wedding
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marinai7
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Just talk about it to FH, my MOH's and my FMIL. They always bring it up and are happy to discuss what we're doing and always giving us ideas. I don't bring it up to others and only talk about it if they ask.
CristinanBen2010
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I only talk about it with family and anyone who asks. I dont bring it up unless someone asks. Thats why Im glad I can talk about it on here!
futureMrsJSL
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I don't talk about it a lot besides to FH and on here. When people ask me, I talk about it. I'm really enthusiastic about these types of things but not everyone is like that, so I don't make it a main topic of discussion.
asg450
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Posted by little j
not really. i limit alot of my wedding discussions to LIW...or wait till im asked. i try not to dominate conversations with this stuff
I do the same thing. I don't want to make anyone think all I want to talk about is 'MY' wedding.
