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how are u asking ur bridesmaids?

AdriandSteve Posted:

how are u asking ur bridesmaids?

I think i'm gonna start asking some of them because..

it'll give them more time to save
a few of them are special and will probably forget the date 10x's lol.

I'm not sure how to ask them though? I wanna do something nice
JillandJoe Posted:

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I asked my bms amost immedidately after I got engaged...which now I regret. It would have been nice to do something nice for them. I asked them all in person though, which was important to me

FutureMrsKuehne Posted:

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i asked all mine on christmas eve and christmas....

sooooo i wrote out christmas cards for them and on the left side i wrote

'for my christmas present this year, i hope you'll say yes... will you be my bridesmaid?'

it was so much fun watching them read it and finally get to the actual question n see their responses!

i was just sharing cuz u obviously cant do that....

but maybe think of when ur gonna do it, and see if there are any themes that go with it...if not, u can do the cookies that are made w/the question on it...i think thats cute
soontobecruz Posted:

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This prob wont help you, sorry.. but I asked them all around Christmas and bought ornaments, and some acrylic paint in the colors I was using and on one side wrote 'will you be my BM' and the other side... Matthew and Shauna 2010.... I didn't have an official date at the time I made them.

OH I have an idea if you could hold out till around St.Pattys day you could get 4 leaf clover shaped paper or cookies or something, and write... 'I would be so lucky if you would be my BM'...

I should have waited and done that!!
JillandJoe Posted:

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i think the cookies are adorable. Some sites have cookies shaped like dresses that you can have say ' will you be my bm or moh' they are cute. I'll try to find the webiste I had looked at and fm it to you later

actually... i found it

http://store.weddingish.com/weex.html
AdriandSteve Posted:

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mmm... cookies.

that sounds like a good idea! lol
AdriandSteve Posted:

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wait.. do i make them or buy them somewhere lol

little j Posted:

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i made up cards on vista print...i havent asked yet tho, so i cant give too much more detail. FH and i are waiting to actually set/book a date before we ask our BP!

AdriandSteve Posted:

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Posted by JillandJoe

i think the cookies are adorable. Some sites have cookies shaped like dresses that you can have say ' will you be my bm or moh' they are cute. I'll try to find the webiste I had looked at and fm it to you later

actually... i found it

http://store.weddingish.com/weex.html



thanks!!
Jenna_and_John Posted:

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I think I am going to do it soon too or the same reasons lol. Actually shopping around now for what I want to get them. I read on here that someone got a book called bridesmaids that isn't a to do list one it's just something nice about friends so I will do that and a cute card written specifically for each to personalize it.

T E R I Posted:

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i gave them all will you be my bridesmaid cards

FutureMrsKuehne Posted:

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Posted by Jenna_and_John

I think I am going to do it soon too or the same reasons lol. Actually shopping around now for what I want to get them. I read on here that someone got a book called bridesmaids that isn't a to do list one it's just something nice about friends so I will do that and a cute card written specifically for each to personalize it.


where did u find that book?? i wanted to get something like that, but i thought all the ones i saw were like too much of 'YOU HAVE TO DO THIS THIS N THAT' which i didnt like lol
AdriandSteve Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsKuehne

Posted by Jenna_and_John

I think I am going to do it soon too or the same reasons lol. Actually shopping around now for what I want to get them. I read on here that someone got a book called bridesmaids that isn't a to do list one it's just something nice about friends so I will do that and a cute card written specifically for each to personalize it.


where did u find that book?? i wanted to get something like that, but i thought all the ones i saw were like too much of 'YOU HAVE TO DO THIS THIS N THAT' which i didnt like lol


yeah i wanna know about that too.
Nichole2010 Posted:

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I got my MOH a t-shirt made that says


Maid of Honor
October 16, 2010

and gave it to her as a gift..

maybe something like that?
JenBill61210 Posted:

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i just asked... i didn't do anything cute. oh well.

deanna225 Posted:

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i asked my bms right away.

LanaB Posted:

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I just told them, you gonna be my bridesmaid. But with all honesty my girls and I talked about it way before I got engaged. All of us talked who is gonna be who's bridesmaid. So it wasnt really a surprise for them. That made it easier :)

KRISTIND Posted:

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i made baskets with cards that i ordered from a greetng card website, the evrything bridesmaid book, a bridesmaid picture frame, and bridesmaid cookies that i made, then i wrapped the whole thing up in tool

Alexandra17 Posted:

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I asked them as soon as I got engaged when I called to tell them that I was engaged..this seems to not be the normal because everyone else has special ways to do it..I was just so excited I couldn't hold it ini

Kimbiz1 Posted:

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I totally dropped the ball on making it special for all of them. Totally my fault!!

Is it okay to do something at the EP to single them out?

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