How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

How come a wedding that is supposed to be a happy event.....

causes so much stress and tears?

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Because there are always people who have to add their 'nasty' 2 cents...They wouldn't be 'them' if they didn't..you know - misery loves complany...

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Posted by clw924

Because there are always people who have to add their 'nasty' 2 cents...They wouldn't be 'them' if they didn't..you know - misery loves complany...

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unfortunately.... so freaking true.... dumb people

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Eleanor, sweetie what happened???

These are for you:

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Everything.... no ones happy. It's coming so fast. It made me realize some not so nice things about people in my life.... $$$.... growing up and dreaming about this day.... I mean I never thought my wedding would hurt people, or make people fight.... it's one of those days, you know?

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Posted by esb980

it's one of those days, you know?

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I do indeed. Have some more . Tomorrow is another day - oh, wait, it's already tomorrow!!!

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I know how you feel I have shed more tears planning my wedding than I ever had in my entire life. Pray pray pray!! and remember who gave the wonderful Gift of finding that one person in the world who has your back !! That's all that matters in the end!! NO matter what people say or do!

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thats because you let it happen...Im sorry but you cant let these people get to you! Enjoy it! You're getting married and the even is only a few hours!

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Posted by msnora

I know how you feel I have shed more tears planning my wedding than I ever had in my entire life. Pray pray pray!! and remember who gave the wonderful Gift of finding that one person in the world who has your back !! That's all that matters in the end!! NO matter what people say or do!

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Well said!

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UGH Screw the nasties! I have heard 100s of unasked for opinions (mostly nasty/condescending/rude/demanding) - and the only way to deal is just to ignore them and remember that you are marrying the man of your dreams! At some point you just have to give up trying to make everyone else happy, and do what makes you and your FH happy (it is YOUR day afterall!)

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I know what you mean, but I just decided I AM NOT GOING TO LET THEM GET TO ME! I just worry about what my FH thinks and that's it. In the begining I was trying so hard to please everyone and no matter what I did someone was still upset, so I gave up!

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I think the biggest reason is because of MONEY! I know that where all my stress is coming from.

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Nothing's ever easy it seems - but it will all be worth it in the end!

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i'm sorry. i finally had to stand up to my mother and get really nasty back at her. it went something along the lines of 'how about worrying less about how you are gonna feel and what you want and more about what i want'. I pretty much screamed this on the top of my lungs at her...since then...no futher nasty comments.

its really impowering to lash back. LOL