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How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?

sweisen Posted:

How did you ask your bridesmaids to be in the wedding?

I was thinking of writing a letter and giving them a pic from when we were much younger?

Any suggestions would be helpful!!
soontobemrsd325 Posted:

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Im taking them out to brunch.

SIBride06 Posted:

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I asked a few of them at my engagement party & the rest one-by-one. I'm prob going to do a bring thing when we go for the bridesmaids dresses.

july06bride Posted:

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did the will you be my bm cards- and we are doing a luncheon on saturday when we go for bm dresses

Suzannebride Posted:

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Posted by sweisen

I was thinking of writing a letter and giving them a pic from when we were much younger?

Any suggestions would be helpful!!



I think that is very sweet. I did a very non-eloquent 'I need me some bridesmaids!' for two of them. LOL!
Kris516 Posted:

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I asked them all in person, but then gave out BM cards that I made at our eparty. Inside each read 'Stand By Me' and the reason I chose them to be in the BP. I have a huge BP, so I wanted to make sure they felt special.

jennymac Posted:

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I just asked them when I saw them. After hearing what all of you do, I feel bad for my poor BM!

cindyandkevin Posted:

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I asked them in person as I saw them. Altho I asked my MOH over the phone on her bday since I wasn't gonna be able to see her. But I also have a BM poem that I'm going to send out so they have something nice to have.
MissingTheBGene Posted:

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Posted by jennymac

I just asked them when I saw them. After hearing what all of you do, I feel bad for my poor BM!



Same here!
melaniejosh Posted:

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I got a dress cookie cutter from ebay and made sugar cookies for each of them and put pretty pink sparkly sprinkles on top (michaels) b/c thats the color I want for their dresses. I gave them each about 6 of them wrapped in pretty celophane (sp??) and wrote a short card asking them to be my BM. The cookies were so cute!!! Everyone loved it.
lillady Posted:

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I took them out to lunch and gave them personalized cards..

SummerBride06 Posted:

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made a card for each. i've only asked 3 of the 5 so far though.

Klarabelle Posted:

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I took all of my girls to my reception hall on a night that they offer brides getting married there an on the house dinner and gave them each a book called 'Bridesmaids' with a personalized message written to each of them inside their books!

I asked my flower girls by giving them each a book called 'When I Was a Flower Girl' with a message written in side for them too!
sweisen Posted:

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Posted by Klarabelle

I took all of my girls to my reception hall on a night that they offer brides getting married there an on the house dinner and gave them each a book called 'Bridesmaids' with a personalized message written to each of them inside their books!

I asked my flower girls by giving them each a book called 'When I Was a Flower Girl' with a message written in side for them too!



What a great idea! Where did you find the book?
Klarabelle Posted:

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THANKS

For my BM I went to Barnes and Noble, however I had to go to 2 stores to get enough for each girl. For my Flower Girls I ordered them online, because the bookstores didn't have them in stock and it would take them up to 10 business days to order them! I got them in 3 business days from amazon.com!

I also think they sell the books through LIW (I am sure I saw them on this site somewhere)
MrsP2Be Posted:

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For my SIL and FSIL it was like..ok, I assume you know you're in this thing? For my Junior BM (my FH's cousin) I asked her mom first then asked her Sunday. I still have yet to do my FG and my MOH..

CalJoe0124 Posted:

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Gave them each a very nice card and then gave my maid of honor a piece of Irish china, she collects it.
I gave this to them at our e-party!
lacey&mark Posted:

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I just asked them when I saw them. After hearing what all of you do, I feel bad for my poor BM!


same here! i didn't know about all of this cute stuff you could do before i asked them! i guess i can make up for it with their gifts lol. ~lacey
SweetCin704 Posted:

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I made up 'Will you be my Bridesmaid' cards & I'll be handing them out at our e-party.

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