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leese Posted:

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Here are some questions...

1. How do I put off looking for dresses...

i'm starting to get pressured........


2. How do I convince FH I need a coordinator


3. How do I stop looking at Bridesmaids dresses because I am OCD on colors.


4. How do I actually do my homework that I need to be doing for my FINAL from my grad class? I said I would start at 2 pm. It's now 2:10pm.

sarahthegreat Posted:

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Ok

1 - you NEED to start looking for a dress, you're wedding is in less then a year.....

2 - tell fh a day of coordinator will make you feel better about the day and the better you feel, the better he will feel

3 - pick a color and then stop looking

4 - get off LIW and get your butt in gear girl
leese Posted:

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love your answers...except number 1

but see now i posted i have to WAIT till I hear allllll the answers!
cindyandkevin Posted:

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Leese, I hate to say this but you need to x-out of LIW and do your homework!!! You know how important grad school is, just getting your hw done will make LIW that much more enjoyable bc you won't have any guilty feelings about it.

C'mon, there isn't anything that interesting on here anyway! It's slow!! So just stop posting, bring your lil mouse cursor up to the corner and click on the X! Don't ask any questions, just do it!!!

You can come back later when you're all done!!!
sarahthegreat Posted:

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Posted by leese

love your answers...except number 1

but see now i posted i have to WAIT till I hear allllll the answers!



dude, come on....
leese Posted:

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Posted by cindyandkevin

Leese, I hate to say this but you need to x-out of LIW and do your homework!!! You know how important grad school is, just getting your hw done will make LIW that much more enjoyable bc you won't have any guilty feelings about it.

C'mon, there isn't anything that interesting on here anyway! It's slow!! So just stop posting, bring your lil mouse cursor up to the corner and click on the X! Don't ask any questions, just do it!!!

You can come back later when you're all done!!!



geez....just when i thought we were all friends!! hehehehe i don't wanna!

1499!
Kerrycec Posted:

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Here are some questions...

1. How do I put off looking for dresses...
WHY PUT IT OFF, YOU NEED TO GET YOUR DRESS. WE HAVE 10 MONTHS LEFT, AND SOME DRESSES TAKE 6-9MOS TO GET IN!

i'm starting to get pressured........
YOU SHOULD BE FEELING THE PRESSURE!!


2. How do I convince FH I need a coordinator
I PERSONALLY FIND THEM A WASTE OF MONEY.


3. How do I stop looking at Bridesmaids dresses because I am OCD on colors.
JUST PICK A COLOR. YOU'RE MARCH, GO WITH GREENS, REDS, PURPLES. THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL THEN! AND STOP LOOKING.


4. How do I actually do my homework that I need to be doing for my FINAL from my grad class? I said I would start at 2 pm. It's now 2:10pm.

GET OFF LIWEDDINGS
leese Posted:

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posting to say

1500 posts!!!!

ok..seriously, i'm going to TRY to turn off the internet.... ok...here goes the mouse...oh no, it is too powerful... can't ... shut.... off.. the....computer..........


someone helllllllllp meeeee
Kiddo115 Posted:

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You are nutty!

AFTER you get off this site and DO your homework... get yourself dress shopping! You want to have the most time to decide what you really would love to wear, rather than rush at the last minute and order anything that you might like. The dress is a big one, get on that!

Bridesmaid dresses... not all that important. Pick one you like and thats it. Don't look back, throw out old bridal mags.. etc. Focus on other things...

DOC is a great thing... just emphasize that having one would keep your focus and attention on your FH and not how the flowers are arranged, who is sitting where, if the DJ is doing everything right... and on and on and on. They just need to put things in perspective.. and realize it's what WE want, not them! lol.. jk! (maybe!)
leese Posted:

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Posted by Kerrycec

Here are some questions...

1. How do I put off looking for dresses...
WHY PUT IT OFF, YOU NEED TO GET YOUR DRESS. WE HAVE 10 MONTHS LEFT, AND SOME DRESSES TAKE 6-9MOS TO GET IN!

i'm starting to get pressured........
YOU SHOULD BE FEELING THE PRESSURE!!




I know this sounds crazy...but I actually really want to wait. My friend got engaged in July, Got Married in February and had her dress in the Fall and she went to RK Bridal and got a designer dress and didn't pay for rushing.

Like, if you read BrideSave.... it will tell you when the Maggie's will come in and it specifically says July/August.

I just want to wait till July 2nd. I am in two weddings and I just don't need the added stress of this... I am so OCD that I'll be constantly thinking about it.

Ugh..... I also just want to tone up a bit more before I go throw on white marshmallow things on my body....

ok...that's my vent.
leese Posted:

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Posted by Kiddo115

You are nutty!




Yes, I am.



DOC is a great thing... just emphasize that having one would keep your focus and attention on your FH and not how the flowers are arranged, who is sitting where, if the DJ is doing everything right... and on and on and on. They just need to put things in perspective.. and realize it's what WE want, not them! lol.. jk! (maybe!)



ETA: I love this idea!
iffer042373 Posted:

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I swear sometimes I feel like joey and chandler from friends the one where they got free porn and were afraid to turn it off cuz they thoguht they would miss something and loose it forever. Thats how I feel like with LIW that if I turn it off I might miss something and never get it back lol lol
kellwolfe Posted:

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I am with Sarah .....I dont think there are better answers -

leese Posted:

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Posted by iffer042373

I swear sometimes I feel like joey and chandler from friends the one where they got free porn and were afraid to turn it off cuz they thoguht they would miss something and loose it forever. Thats how I feel like with LIW that if I turn it off I might miss something and never get it back lol lol



dude...this is how i feel...

ok, shutting off seriously. when i come back... i hope i didn't miss anything. ugh...hate school.
JessicaM. Posted:

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Posted by leese


Posted by Kerrycec

Here are some questions...

1. How do I put off looking for dresses...
WHY PUT IT OFF, YOU NEED TO GET YOUR DRESS. WE HAVE 10 MONTHS LEFT, AND SOME DRESSES TAKE 6-9MOS TO GET IN!

i'm starting to get pressured........
YOU SHOULD BE FEELING THE PRESSURE!!






Ugh..... I also just want to tone up a bit more before I go throw on white marshmallow things on my body....

ok...that's my vent.



waiting is fine luv, but you can only look like a marshmallow if you DRESS like one. you are quite lovely....get your sexy but into a sexy dress and work it honey!

P.S. in too many poofs and puffs, anyone will look like a marshmallow


Good luck on your final!
cindyandkevin Posted:

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Aw, I'm sorry leese! I didn't mean to make you mad at me!!!

Just take one thing at a time, first do your hw. You can worry about the other stuff tomorrow!

And this is totally like that Friends episode, of course I can relate anything to a Friends episode!!
leese Posted:

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Posted by cindyandkevin

Aw, I'm sorry leese! I didn't mean to make you mad at me!!!

Just take one thing at a time, first do your hw. You can worry about the other stuff tomorrow!

And this is totally like that Friends episode, of course I can relate anything to a Friends episode!!



never! thanks for the push in the butt!

i did the second part of the take home final for the last hour (did the first part yesterday) and can now surf on LI Weddings guilt-free! yay!

sarahthegreat Posted:

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Posted by kellwolfe

I am with Sarah .....I dont think there are better answers -



hmpena Posted:

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Ms. Lisa,

How did it go? Did you finish your paper?

I think it is fine to look for dresses in July. Set a timeframe and stick to it. I ordered my dress 9 months before my wedding and all is well. But stick to the time frame you set.

In terms of the DOC, explain your concerns to FI and how important it is to you to have a stress free wedding day (which will help him have a stress free wedding day... and fun wedding night! )
july06bride Posted:

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I think July is ok for dresses, but really do it, dont wait much longer than that!

good luck with your finals!

BM dresses- pick a color and go with it...there are many colors out there and you will make yourself crazy with them all!

DOC- explain what she does, how it will help you, that cost isnt all that much (with a few of them, some are more $$) and that if it will make your life easier, then it will in the end make him happier!

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