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How do I address this?

Helene718 Posted:

How do I address this?

I am inviting someone who is a doctor, but her husband isn't. How do I address the invite? Is it Mr. and Doctor John Smith? Or is there some other way to do this? I know there was a post about this recently, I just can't seem to find it. Thanks!

jennbaby Posted:

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Doctor Jane White
and Mr. Edward White
Helene718 Posted:

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Really? i never would have thought that. You put the doctor first? Glad I asked. Thanks Jenn!
sanmik Posted:

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I would address it
Mr. John and Doctor Jane Smith
SomedayBride Posted:

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Jennbaby is right, the person with the professional title always comes first, even if it is a woman. So,
Doctor Jane Smith and Mr. Joe Smith is correct.
Edited to spell out doctor, since that's the correct way.
SomedayBride Posted:

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From theknot.com
Q. What if the woman is a doctor and the man is not? Does the woman's name come first because of her title?

A. Yes, the spouse with the professional title is listed first. Outer envelope: 'Dr. Kate Randolph Mr. Brian Randolph.' Or, 'Dr. Kate Randolph and Mr. Brian Randolph' (if it fits on one line). The inner envelope would read: 'Dr. Randolph and Mr. Randolph' or 'Dr. and Mr. Randolph.'

However, I read in an etiquette book that doctor should be spelled out. I guess it can be done either way.
jennbaby Posted:

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Helene718 Posted:

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Thanks! Last one to go and the invites go out on Friday!
WeezieNY Posted:

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I AGREE W/SOMEDAY BRIDE

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