how do i ask the bp/family...

butterfly20 Posted: Nov 05, 2003 04:51 PM

how do i ask the bp/family...

fh has three ' young' cousins,
we plan to ask one to be a gm, one a bm
and the other(youngest) will be a greeter(hand out programs,roses)

how should we go about asking all them without making the youngest think shes a bm.
Do we ask her to be a greeter first, then ask the other two?

August2004 Posted: Nov 05, 2003 07:51 PM

Re: how do i ask the bp/family...

We had the same situation and we just added the other one to the bridal party. It makes it uneven, but I did not want anyone's 'feelings' to get hurt. Can you make the younger one a junior BM?

kathleenmarie Posted: Nov 05, 2003 07:57 PM

Re: how do i ask the bp/family...

We spoke to the parents and then asked the kids to in the party, and told them what their role was, and then we told the others we had a special job we needed them to do for us. We have one handing out programs and one handing out tossing rice. Everyone was fine with it and glad to take a part!