I'm asking because..I kinda messed up my BCP on the HM and a few days after we got back..
I was supossed to get aunt flo the day after the wedding, so didn't take the placebos of my BCP and starting taking the next month right away..but we were so drunk and tired everynight, that I forgot it a few times. I've had some spotting and cramping the past few days and I'm freaking out.l DH is excited though..
Ugh..I can't wait until the end of the month to just know. I wasn't going to say anything...but I'm home alone and just keep thinking about it!!!!
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agraydc
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i think whats meant to be will be!!!!
only time will tell over the next few weeks
Future Mulligan
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this is my biggest fear......i always get so nervous, its amazing that we even have sex
MrsHtobe
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Posted by agraydc
i think whats meant to be will be!!!!
only time will tell over the next few weeks
I agree - Its a blessing no matter when it happens! If it happens, it was meant to be!!!
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this is my biggest fear......i always get so nervous, its amazing that we even have sex
Ditto! I've convinced myself every month for the last 3-4 months that I am. I never worried before but now that I'm going to be a 'bride' I think of it constantly. And I'm on the pill and very religious about taking it....
But everyone is right...it will happen when it happens and it will be a blessing!
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as long as youre happy about it which im sure you would be, even when its not planned. i always say how although i dont plan on it now, if it did happen its such a blessing and you cant really be disappointed about having a baby so all those thoughts go out of your head and joy takes over.
Spotting happens to me, it actually can mean you are ovulating.
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Posted by MrsHtobe
Posted by agraydc
i think whats meant to be will be!!!!
only time will tell over the next few weeks
I agree - Its a blessing no matter when it happens! If it happens, it was meant to be!!!
Absolutely agree!!
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There are tests out there to tell even earlier. It could be stress and it could that you messed with the pills. Also, you may get false results. Quite honestly, you probably should s/w the gyn.
DeeluvsVinny
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It is a blessing and if it did happen, we'd both be very happy.but we just wanted to wait until at least January to start trying.
I guess I could call the gyn to make an appt..but I guess I'm just nervous to...
FinallyEngaged
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this is my biggest fear......i always get so nervous, its amazing that we even have sex
That is my fear as well!!! I want to wait at least 2 years, but if it happens sooner, than it is meant to be and i will look at is as a blessing!
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this is my biggest fear......i always get so nervous, its amazing that we even have sex
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lol me too- i dont know who worries about it more- him or me! we will be thrilled with kids someday- we would just like to wait if we can- but if it happens, it happens
kmcs317
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You can always take a First Response Early Result test...those can pick up the pregnancy hormone up to 5 days BEFORE your period (rite aid has their own brand...). Believe me I've done my hpt research in the last 4 months. I take them every month now! hahahaha.
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What's meant to be will be... did you take a test?
I will edit my post when you take yours down - also you can ask Client Services to delete the whole thread.
