After our whole drama we are now wondering how in the heck do we uninvite people?! We didn't send out our invites however we did send out STDs over a year ago when we were going to have 100 plus people. Now that our wedding is only 75 guests how do you pass the word that you are only having a SMALL FAMILY WEDDING and no longer a BIG WEDDING???? I am sure some folks will be upset but we have NO choice at this point. What do we do???Any opinions are welcome and very much appreciated!!
AngnShaun
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Is 75 what you guaranteed at the new place?
FutureCap
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how many people were your original list ?
Rosalind_75
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Posted by AngnShaun
Is 75 what you guaranteed at the new place?
i was going to ask the same thing
soontobecruz
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I would start spreading the word now. Do most people on your guest list know the health issues you've had this past year. If so, they will understand. If not fill them in a little and again they should understand.
You can say you appreciate their support but due to hardships you have had no other choice but to cut back and have to stick to immediate family only. You are sorry and hope they understand.
Honestly, who could argue with that.... hang in there hun!
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Posted by AngnShaun
Is 75 what you guaranteed at the new place?
i was going to ask the same thing
if it is what you guaranteed then i would go ahead an inviite 100 people, if not, i guess your only option is to just flat out tell them the truth, there is no getting around this one, people are going to be upset and probably offended and rightfully so, you cant blame them ya know
MisyMiss32
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75 is our minimum and honestly it's what we can afford
AwaitingAugust
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Tell them you're sorry but due to budget constraints, you can only invite family to the wedding.
AngnShaun
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75 is our minimum and honestly it's what we can afford
then you need to invite that 100.... you are going to get No's for sure... if you dont invite them you wont make your minimum most likely!
MisyMiss32
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And this is why I ask you Ladies your advice. 100 it is (Crossing fingers that I get a few nooos'!)
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75 is our minimum and honestly it's what we can afford
then you need to invite that 100.... you are going to get No's for sure... if you dont invite them you wont make your minimum most likely!
yeah what she said.
our min was 125 we invited a little over 160 including us and our vendors we hit our min
hth
MisyMiss32
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That many people really answer no?!!!! I guess I am just expecting everyone to say yes! LOL
AngnShaun
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That many people really answer no?!!!! I guess I am just expecting everyone to say yes! LOL
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That many people really answer no?!!!! I guess I am just expecting everyone to say yes! LOL
haha
we invited oot that we knew would say no but we had a view that did surprise us. some where due to health issues a few others had plans that day. some came solo because their better halfs had to work. oh and single people we invited with a guest decided not to bring a date
