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How do you chose??

KN2011 Posted:

How do you chose??

I went dress shopping for the 4th time and I can't decide. I always find 1 that I love but I never feel like its 'the one'. I feel like I'm never going to decide!

VCanizalez Posted:

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Well I think that you are not sure yet because you have NOT found THE ONE....
I think when you found it, it will be like when you found your FH... there are so many man out there but when you know He was the ONE then the other ones did not matter...
I guess it is something like that with your dress...

Just keep looking...
You will KNOW when you find THE ONE!
depoc1011 Posted:

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i felt like everytime i went dress shopping, i found 'the one' then i would go home, look at the pics and for some reason or another decide it was not the one....i was getting so frustrated...

i took a few weeks off from dress shopping and then hit 3 shops in one day with mom and then finally found the one....went home, waited about 2 weeks...couldnt get the dress out of my head, couldnt find anything i didnlt like about it...tried it on 2 more times and volia! the one!

i will be honest and say for me, it took over 100 dresses and 7 shops....so keep looking and dont settle!
KN2011 Posted:

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Thanks ladies! I feel like I'm getting frustrated. There's one dress I keep going back to but I'm not ready to settle down with it. Its the Maggie Sottero Carrie.

allornil Posted:

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Posted by KN2011

Thanks ladies! I feel like I'm getting frustrated. There's one dress I keep going back to but I'm not ready to settle down with it. Its the Maggie Sottero Carrie.


ohhhhh I likey! I looked it up.

i say just keep looking. If you keep coming back to that one, then it's the one. :) Don't feel bad not settling.
KN2011 Posted:

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At what point am I clinically insane?? Lol

jwleewedding Posted:

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you can't just find something you 'love'.... cause that's never enough. when you find 'the one', trust me, you'll know. you wont be able to stop thinking about it and that's when you know it's the right one.

i only tried on 6 dresses in total, and within those 6, i found my #1.. and everyone knew it, but it took me a few more weeks to realize it.
FutureJOC Posted:

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I tried on SOO many dresses since I started shopping and I never felt like 'This is the one' when I had them on me. I had my eye on a certain dress that I was calling EVERYWHERE for (I mean even Jersey and CT stores) until I finally found it in Brooklyn. I just had a feeling this was going to be my dress because I couldn't get it out of my mind - it had everything I was looking for in a dress. As soon as I put it on me, I just knew this was it for me and my mom and grandma's reaction confirmed it for me because they both loved it!

My mom wants me to go shopping just once more to be sure, but she knows and I know that my mind is made up - it doesn't matter how many more dresses I try on, this is MY dress!
Moonmist09 Posted:

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keep looking! you'll find the one that will make your heart stop!

LoveyDovey Posted:

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keep looking...

i was just like depoc, i tried on soooo many dresses....went to 9 or 10 stores...i felt like 3 dresses were the one...but when i got home changed my mind a few days later...

when i actually found the ONE...i was alone...and i was so happy in the dress without ANYONE saying a word to me...i thought about the dress for dayssssssssssssss....still thinking about it actually!

i know how you feel...you feel like youll never get that feeling, but you will! just be patient and keep looking!!!
rendel Posted:

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You will know!!!!!

FutureMrsLots Posted:

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Keep looking and don't stress. You'll find it

futurestevens Posted:

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i just wanted to say that's a GORGEOUS dress
MissingLI Posted:

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You will definately know! I tried on about 20 something dresses but the dress I bought was the only one that took my breath away and brought tears to my eyes when I saw myself in the mirror for the first time. You'll know the feeling.

DoctorDani Posted:

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I am having a hard time too. I am incredibly indecisive by nature, and I think that all of the dresses I've tried on are pretty. Thankfully, I took lots of pictures and have been narrowing them down after the fact. Maybe I should post a few of the pictures on here.

KN2011 Posted:

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Thanks Ladies!

Im getting Married Posted:

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I have tried on so many dresses at different places..I never got that 'feeling' but when I found my dress I had my mom come back with me and she loved it..we ordered and then I couldn't wait for it to get here so I think that is my sign

Maybe like the OP said take some time off from dress shopping and then start again..I think if you try on too many you start to get confused

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