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How do you revoke a BM invitation?

KK Holiday Posted:

How do you revoke a BM invitation?

empressdani Posted:

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just here to give you some of these cuz it sux that you have to do that
...sorry I can't help w/ how you should do it. I'm not usually very good with using tact and I think that is necessary in that situation
jennandrolo Posted:

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are you two really close?

blu6385 Posted:

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why are you having second thoughts?
Browneyesncute Posted:

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I was going to ask one of my BM to step down to do a reading but i decided not to! i felt bad, but it depends on your situation!! you want to be sure about the people standing behind you! GL!

angl2001 Posted:

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i would sit her down and tell her whats bothering you,let her know that she is not making your wedding planning enjoyble.
hope it works out
KK Holiday Posted:

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GinaZ Posted:

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I honestly don't believe in asking someone to not be a BM after you asked them. Unless there are extreme circumstances. I think it would be very insulting to them if you asked them to no longer be apart of the wedding- just please think it over very carefully before doing this- it could ruin the friendship.

GinaZ Posted:

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Posted by jnkcrunk

I was just speaking with her. She is very excited and cant wait to try on dresses!!

I'm going to keep her. She is a close friend and she is so excited!!! Now I have 7 girls! hahaha

Thanks for all your help girls!!


Just read this!! Glad to hear it worked out!!
RadiantBride Posted:

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Posted by jnkcrunk

I was just speaking with her. She is very excited and cant wait to try on dresses!!

I'm going to keep her. She is a close friend and she is so excited!!! Now I have 7 girls! hahaha

Thanks for all your help girls!!


I am so happy things worked out!
AS Posted:

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Posted by jnkcrunk

Asked someone to be a bridesmaid now I'm having second thoughts? is there anyway to do this nicely? Or should I just keep her and know that it will make her happy?


Is she a friend or family? You can tell her you have cut down your BM, you want to have a small BP, family only???

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