& not let all the drama get to you in the last month or so? I feel like all I do is cry and get upset lately!
jesslangen
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Take a deep breath and imagine how funny it would be if everyone showed up to your reception in their underwear!? maybe that will cause a little giggle!
DMcK
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I'll try, all I can seem to do lately is cry.
Mrs. dleeny
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I'll try, all I can seem to do lately is cry.
Why is that? is someone close to you giving you a hard time?
DMcK
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I'll try, all I can seem to do lately is cry.
Why is that? is someone close to you giving you a hard time?
FMIL. I am sick of drama I don't cause and get stuck with!
Borricuamorena0905
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wow... It's that serious... huh??? Pray, and say to urself. I'm going to let that go in one ear & out the other.
mcaula
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Awww sweetie you should not be upset like this this is suppose one of the most happiest times of your life. Try to think of the main reason why you are getting married when going through heard times I think of the love of my life my FH
Don't let the Haters get to you
jesslangen
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Dont liet it get to you!! I know its easier said than done, but in the end your wedding wll be perfect no matter what! Just try to keep that in mind when FMIL starts getting on your case about something that doesnt involve you!
xoxo
Mrs. dleeny
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I'll try, all I can seem to do lately is cry.
Why is that? is someone close to you giving you a hard time?
FMIL. I am sick of drama I don't cause and get stuck with!
Oh jeeez! that's a shame! can you talk to her calmly and tell her how you feel? Maybe if she finds out how much misery she is causing you, she will back off? I HOPE!
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So far I have just freaked out on people and they come to their senses. Then I feel better. That so far has been my only way of working it out.
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shut your phones off........it does wonders!!!
DMcK
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Thanks for your advice and support, ladies. I am trying to focus on FH and how much we love one another and how blessed and grateful I am to have him in my life. I guess I let the drama get to me a bit too much over the last week with some of FMIL's rude comments and attempts to control things and exclude. With your help and FH's support, I'm doing the best I can to focus on what matters.
Thanks ladies
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try to breathe and take things one day at a time... and remember, it's your day with FH - not FMILs or anyone else's. so let everything she says and does bounce right off you. and if you get pissed enough, why not tell her that she is ruining what is supposed to be one of the happiest times of your life? maybe she'll get it, and stop making you miserable.
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I'll try, all I can seem to do lately is cry.
Why is that? is someone close to you giving you a hard time?
FMIL. I am sick of drama I don't cause and get stuck with!
Oh jeeez! that's a shame! can you talk to her calmly and tell her how you feel? Maybe if she finds out how much misery she is causing you, she will back off? I HOPE!
