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How do you tell your boss...

BoogieDownBride Posted:

How do you tell your boss...

that they're driving you nuts????? Not that this is news, but my boss is being totally condescending, and pretty much treating me like I don't know how to do my job! I have been biting my tounge all day, but she's being such a jerk....I feel like I should say something...just don't want to say the wrong thing...
NYCHICK Posted:

Re: How do you tell your boss...

GO TO YOUR GENERALIST...definitely

eta - your hr generalist....that is thier job to solve workplace issues like these
Kriss2c Posted:

Re: How do you tell your boss...

If you have an HR department, go to them... otherwise I would confront her directly. Just because she's your boss does not give her specific license to abuse you.

TwoBugs Posted:

Re: How do you tell your boss...

What's a generalist?

luvsun27 Posted:

Re: How do you tell your boss...

I have been in this position...and I just asked my boss if there was something that I was doing wrong that was making her upset. We had a nice converstation...and it turned out to be that she was having a hard time (personally) and that was causing the tension. However...if you don't have a good relationship with this person...definately call your HR department.

steph4777 Posted:

Re: How do you tell your boss...


Posted by luvsun27

I have been in this position...and I just asked my boss if there was something that I was doing wrong that was making her upset. We had a nice converstation...and it turned out to be that she was having a hard time (personally) and that was causing the tension. However...if you don't have a good relationship with this person...definately call your HR department.



I agree with luvsun27. Try talking to your mgr first. If you go to HR only go to get advice to handle the conversation. If the conversation with your mgr doesn't go well then bring in HR as a mediator.

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