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How does everyone else feel...

Melissa Posted:

How does everyone else feel...

about this?

I know it can't happen now, but does anybody else who has a baby now, already want another one?

I can't help it! I'm just so in love with my son, I want another! But, I do want to give him my undivided attention right now. I love the one on one time. It's so amazing.

I do however want another one when Caiden is 2 years old. That would mean I'd have to get PG in about 8 months! That seems soooo close! Of course we'll have to see how our financial situation is. We're working on it now, and is starting to get better already.

I just want to be a younger mom. I already tired as it is, so I don't think we should wait until we're older. Of course it could take longer to get PG next time, but I'll worry about that when the time comes.

I was just wondering if anyone wants another one soon after experiencing what motherhood is all about. I also miss being PG too. Well, not the first 2 months, or last 2 months. The months in between were good! And maybe if I wasn't sick the last two months, I might of enjoyed it a little bit more!

btrflygrl Posted:

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my best friend got PG with #2 when her daughter was 10 months old...but she had trouble with endometriosis and her DR said if she was going to go for #2...sooner than later was ideal. Now she's got two little boogers!!!

Victoria Posted:

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I decided I wanted them close in age so we went for it. My dd is 20 months old and I was due with #2 yesterday. Do what feels right for you and DH.
kptoys Posted:

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I will have #2 when Emma is 2 1/2. I want to get being pregnant done and over with while my body is able to handle all the stresses better. I want to have all my kids close together. If it werent for the wedding Im sure I would have been pregnant again sooner.

soon2bMrs Posted:

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I want to have my children close together as well. I am only 8 weeks pregnant now, but I would like to have #2 by the time this one is 2 years old too. I want to be done with pregnancies at a fairly early age so that if I want to have a third there is still time.

Elizabeth Posted:

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I got pg with Tara when Luke was 1 year old. She is now 5 weeks and it's really hard juggling 2 so close. I know it will get easier, it already has since we brought her home but it's difficult especially b/c the older one (22 months) doesnt completely understand that she is so fragile and he doesnt understand his own feelings either and cant express them and it comes out in misbehaving. I find the morning the hardest time b/c Tara gets up a few times in the night like any newborn and then at 6:30am Lukie is up, full of energy and ready to go - Mommy gets worn out.

With all that 'negative' stuff said, I wouldnt change it for the world. It wont always be this way and I think it will be great that they are close in age.

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