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HOW EARLY DO YOU SEND INVITATIONS?

lulugrrl Posted:

HOW EARLY DO YOU SEND INVITATIONS?

OKay..this post is in lieu of seeing that TWO of my fellow february brides have mailed out their invites. I really wasn't thinking of sending them until next month some time. Am I supposed to be doing this already? I am a bad bad bride!!!!!!
JanuaryBride06 Posted:

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My wedding is 1/8 and we sent out the invitations on 10/31. Our RSVP date is 12/8. Hope this helps.

SuzBride Posted:

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I think some February brides sent theirs out early to try to miss the Holiday post office rush.

lulugrrl Posted:

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Posted by SuzBride

I think some February brides sent theirs out early to try to miss the Holiday post office rush.





GOOD POINT!!! I still think I am going to wait until December though...not to mention I don't even have all my addresses together!

Thanks Ladies!
PrincessConsuela Posted:

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i am going to send mine the week of thanksgiving

chikita315 Posted:

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I think rule is around 6-8 weeks.

Kerrycec Posted:

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actually 6 weeks is too late. I say 8-12 weeks is standard.

We are sending ours the first week in dec. for our 3/4/06 wedding
leese Posted:

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OUT: January 15th
RSVP IN (hopefully): February 25th
Wedding (hopefully - j/k): March 25th

So, about 10 weeks before and giving them 6 weeks to send it back in with 4 weeks as a buffer.

Plus, we'll be over the 'holiday' cards and into the new 'postage' rate so it'll create less confusion for me.
sk1nny27 Posted:

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i think 6 is ok. especially if you sent STD's

ChrissynRicky Posted:

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Our RSVP date is one month in advance, which is March 30; We're planning on sending them out the second week in February.

BEANS Posted:

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I plan on sending mine on 4/1, with response date of 5/10...wedding 6/10.

hmpena Posted:

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Wedding: 1/15
Invites out: 10/31
RSVP by: 12/5

We definitely did not want our invites to get lost with holiday mail.
lulugrrl Posted:

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okay so I think mailing them out 12/3 is plenty of time for a 1/20 RSVP date and a 2/17 wedding...Thanks for all the responses

Now on to the stamp debate, LOL I am stuck right in the midst of it, I think I will just stick to the 37 center!
CaMacho Posted:

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Posted by BEANS

I plan on sending mine on 4/1, with response date of 5/10...wedding 6/10.




About the same as BEANS... maybe a week or 2 earlier.
leighdvm Posted:

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I was going to send mine out after Thanksgiving for an RSVP date of January 18th. Does that seem too early???

JCam695 Posted:

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I *think* we'll do this:
Mail: April 24
RSVP: June 1
Wedding: June 24

So mailing 8 weeks prior.
cantwait2bewed Posted:

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Posted by lulugrrl

OKay..this post is in lieu of seeing that TWO of my fellow february brides have mailed out their invites. I really wasn't thinking of sending them until next month some time. Am I supposed to be doing this already? I am a bad bad bride!!!!!!




U are fine trust me. Sent out your inviations by December 1st. Request the RSVP by Feb. 1st. This is enough time to do the seating chart etc.


This is what I am doing

Send OUt: March 3rd
RSVP by: May 5th
Wedding: May 29th
NYCtoSEA Posted:

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Mine are going out early next week
RSVP is 12/21
Wedding is 1/21

I sent out STDs a while ago - in the beginning of the summer. How sad that I have forgotten the date I sent them - too much going on in my head right now!
stephensvalentine Posted:

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I am one of those february brides. i'm getting married 2/18 and my invites went out YESTERDAY!! (yeah )

I was thinking about the holiday rush and I have a very early rsvp date (12/20). We guaranteed a high number and I figure if we're short we can invite some 'b-listers' in a tasteful timeframe.

Otherwise I would have waited until next month. I think you're ok...
kissy27 Posted:

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Mailing: January 2nd
RSVP: February 17th
Wedding: March 31st!

Mailling the invites out 12 weeks prior to wedding & RSVP are due 6 weeks prior! Leaving myself 5 weeks buffer zone for the lazy ones!1

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