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how far in adveance do a I plan?

Joelle Posted:

how far in adveance do a I plan?

Hi everyone, I am new to this site and I see that you are all getting married this May. I just got engaged on Valentines Day this year, we want to do a May 2005 wedding, we were told we really need to start looking soon for a May wedding, is this true? Should we be looking for a place now, does May really pack up at the reception halls?

tracyg Posted:

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Congrats! and welcome
you should probably start looking. We booked our hall a year and a half before the wedding, and dates were already filling up.

wc0143 Posted:

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We didn't book our reception site until August, so nine months prior.

Joelle Posted:

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I wasnt sure everyone is telling me to look, and there are just so many places, i guess its just a little overwhelming when you first start, you realize just how much there is to do and how many places you have to choose from...the only thing I know is that it will be in Suffolk County

May2004 Posted:

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I think you should, especially if you want particular vendors.

I got engaged Nov. 2002. Picked our date and started planning in Jan. 2003.
Joelle Posted:

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Now, let me ask you girls, we know we want the wedding in May, should we pick an exact date then find a place or vice versa?

May2004 Posted:

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I had a date in mind, the Hall was available, but the church wasn't (Communions, May is a busy month).

I went to the Hall and found out the dates that were available. Then I went to the church and from there I picked a date.

*Note if you go to the Hall first, DON'T tell the Church you went to the Hall first. The Church feels you should go to them first, since its a sacarament, etc... Its fine if you do, do that - just don't tell them
jar823 Posted:

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I would definately start looking around now! We booked our hall 1 year and 4 months ahead, and the days in may were very scarce! (sp?)@

Robeymuse Posted:

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Posted by Joelle

Now, let me ask you girls, we know we want the wedding in May, should we pick an exact date then find a place or vice versa?



Have a couple of dates...you may end up switching...I did...twice!
Are you getting married at the reception hall?
If not, then you also have to make sure your ceremony site is available.
mich Posted:

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I would start looking now. We went with a couple of dates in mind.

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