How in hell am I going to afford next year?

So JT and I were going over our finances last night. We only save about 1000 dollars a month, and just about everything else goes to bills. We both work second jobs, but it's hard to save anymore than we are. If we continue to save 1000 a month, we will be in fine shape for our wedding, BUT....I am my sister's maid of honor two months before my wedding and I am in another bridal party one month before my wedding. That means I have to help pay for both their showers, buy wedding gifts, buy two dresses, shoes, etc for both their weddings, pay for bachelorette parties, etc. ALSO I have two other weddings in the same time frame that I am going to. I don't know how I am going to afford 2005
We decided to cut out EVERYTHING from now on. No more shopping, no more going out to dinner or movies or anything. I'm just so upset.

God that's a lot!!! You are making me grateful that I was the last to get married!

i know it's tough but it seems that a lot of the girls on this site have the same problem...

sometimes i'm jealous of my friends who have their parents paying for the majority of the wedding and then i see them freaking out and think, well what about me!!

try not to stress though, i'm sure it'll all work out in the end. i mean we're not the first that this is happening to and we're certainly not the last, and somehow people get through it and it all works out...

this year will fly by and you'll be on your feet again...