Just curious to see what the guys are doing..or not
camerakrazie
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FH has nothing to do with it...i get to make all the plans and decisions
in a way its good...but in another way....its bad because i cant get his input in anything
he is always like...whatever you want is fine!!
cherilicious16
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Yup! Geo same way...he's more of the, 'I'll tell you what I DONT like' type.
sugarkube4
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it's OUR wedding.. Mostly, I make the decisions, but he has total input.. Except with the flowers.. I have wanted calla lillies from since before I even met him, BUT, he did get to pick the centerpieces!! SO it worked out!!
ant n tilde
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we picked out the hall together - and that's about it! lol - i am going to see all my vendors with my MOH and i just basically tell him after i go - of course i would love his input but he has no opinion on anything so far!
Basically if his friends are there, theres alcohol and in the end we are married - that's all he cares about!
in a way its awesome bc i get to pick everything - but then i get nervous that he isnt going to like the end result!
shelby34
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Only when I make him! for example...today I made a 'to do' list and read it to him for ideas on what I missed. Of course he said, 'sounds good' i then looked it over and realized I missed a bunch of things, including the marriage license!!
snowcat
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eh, he has input every now and then, and he is happy to attend appts. w/ me, but doesn't have very strong opinions about decorating and stuff...he usually agrees w/ me.
lisaslove
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he is pretty much helping with all descions except flowers which is ok with me
Unapearla
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Posted by lisaslove
he is pretty much helping with all descions except flowers which is ok with me
same here
Mandyin2007
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FH is pretty involved. Doesn't care about minute details though.
charliesbride
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he is 100% involved...his parents are paying just as much as mine, so we are making all decisions together....we go to all appts together...
JIFFY
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I make all the decisions. I even booked the hall without him looking at it. He dosen't care at all. He trusts my judgement. But if there is something he wants to do I do it.
Nic and Ant
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My FH is sooo involved sometimes it can be annoying. But I love his input most of the time, because it's his wedding too. He also comes on here alot, checks out the posts and sometimes posts on the grooms area.
kris15198
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FH is somewhat involved.
kam0813
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he's involved...we picked all our vendors together...i've even let him see the dresses that i like that i'm going to try on at the bridal salons...he won't see me IN them but he gets to at least see what they look like...the only thing he doesn't really get a say in are the flowers...he just okay-ed what florist i used...and he tells me what kind of dresses he likes out of the ones i showed him...but yeah i'm proud of him for his involvement
PaddysGirl15
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I have to say hes been great- he helped set up all the over seas vendors apts. hes doing all the honeymoon ressearch, and he'll always sit and watch bridezillas with me
prettyprincess07
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FH helped to pick out the RH. I have to admit it was a good choice. Along with Limo, HM, Tuxedos and so forth. As for my dress and brides maids things that's left up to me and MOH and my sis- So I cant complain
cherilicious16
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Sometimes I feel like I have to give him assignments!! Maybe thats just the teacher in me!
D's Girl
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We are paying for everything ourselves and it's our wedding, so I have to say thankfully he is involved in everything.
I would not want it any other way though
He let's me be creative and decide the cake topper, favors and stuff like that, but I show him everything before we make the final ok.
