How involved are you with your shower?

QueensBride Posted: Mar 04, 2005 02:35 PM

How involved are you with your shower?

prncssrachel Posted: Mar 04, 2005 02:36 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

Not at all, and I'd like to keep it that way!

QueensBride Posted: Mar 04, 2005 02:42 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

Posted by prncssrachel

Not at all, and I'd like to keep it that way!

Me too....but I do give them ideas, lol

Donna&Joe708 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 02:44 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

The only thing I was involved with was the list...I gave my sister (MOH) a list of friends that I wanted invited and then she will determine who from the family will be invited.

Corduroy94 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 02:45 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

I drop hints and occasionally pick up a cateering menu if my mom knows we're going to a restaurant she likes but I am trying to stay out of it. The BMs are doing a pretty good job of keeping me shut out which I appreciate

bluesashbride Posted: Mar 04, 2005 02:47 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

i only gave my MOH a list, so she would know who is coming to the wedding. i had nothing to do with it, which i liked because then i wasn't demanding anything, expecting anything, or putting additional pressure on anyone. and it was fun!!!

lauren16 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 02:49 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

i'm not involved in any way, except to give a list of people probably. We have so much to plan with the wedding, so I'd much rather keep it this way. I don't even want to know when it is.

azoodie Posted: Mar 04, 2005 02:51 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

i'm not involved in any way shape or form and i prefer it that way! i have enough to do!

melissaandsean Posted: Mar 04, 2005 02:53 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

I gave the addresses and I told them what sorta invitations I like. Then I helped my mom pick out a few different options, but I dont know for sure which one she got.

that's about all I could find out. The rest is a surprise.

SUNSHINE24 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:10 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

I gave a list of names and some ideas of things i would like and things that they dont need to waste there time and money on.
The rest is a suprise

o17range Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:22 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

I'm not involved at all and I'd like to keep it that way!

diamondgrlie Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:26 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

I wasnt at all but I kind of figured out when and where it is.

pattyp Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:34 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

I was invovled with the date and invitees. I believe that's it!

lilacwine Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:46 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

I gave the invite list with addresses, called my mom to let her know of FMIL's guest list change, obsessively watch the items go flying off my registires!

Sweetpea130000 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:47 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

Just the people and addresses

QueensBride Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:48 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

Posted by pattyp

I was invovled with the date and invitees. I believe that's it!

So you know when your shower is?

takeoutcook Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:53 PM

Re: How involved are you with your shower?

I'll know when it is and where. I'm not one for surprises and I'd rather be there to greet my guests as they arrive.

I'll also be providing the favors - partly because I want to purchase small tokens of appreciation for the people who are giving me such generous gifts, and also because I'm a slight control freak and want to do something!