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How involved is your FH in the planning the wedding?

beebs341 Posted:

How involved is your FH in the planning the wedding?

This should be funny.....

barbtony Posted:

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Wow - Glad I'm not alone on this one!!!!

JenBill61210 Posted:

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he is somewhat involved. but i make the appts. w/ the vendors, stuff like that. he just wants to know overall price.

deanna225 Posted:

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my fh is sooooo involved in the wedding. sometimes it drives me crazy.

Jna2010 Posted:

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i do all the appts, research etc, but he wants to see everything and come on appointments.... showcases and stuff he wont do but when its comes to decision making, he def wants to be there........ suprisingly!

RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by JenBill61210

he is somewhat involved. but i make the appts. w/ the vendors, stuff like that. he just wants to know overall price.


That is all he cares about - the price
MrsC2010 Posted:

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he is really involved in calling vendors and coming to appts and stuff like that...

but he doesnt really care about color scheme, favors, and other little details like that...

i gave him a pretty involved!
beebs341 Posted:

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OMG I feel horrible. My FH is barely involved. I don't mind though - I get what I want that way. haha

lori7570 Posted:

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Pretty involved which was really a pleasant surprise...I like it that way....

Nichole2010 Posted:

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i think he secretly enjoys it more than he lets me know lol

but he tells me wht he likes and what he doesnt like..

and hes an LIW member
rocketsummer17 Posted:

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He is really involved...I wouldnt go as far as saying he is reading my bridal magazines!!!
He does research on his own, he is a poster on this site, he comes with me to all the appointments I make for us and he is actively involved in all the decision making....
I wouldnt have it any other way!!
(he is actually home right now researching Limo's for us!!)
Kiki1103 Posted:

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He is somewhat involved. I have to do the research, appointment making and I even had to weed out the RH's before he would come see them with me the second time. I wish he was more involved!

T E R I Posted:

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FH is not involved at all, he only came to the RH with me to sign the contract. He just wants to know how much

Rosalind_75 Posted:

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He is so involved.
Can't blame him.
He is paying a big chunk of it.
Plus the man does love a good party
mosh424 Posted:

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FH loves being involved but lets me make all the final decisions! So I have best of both worlds!!!!

RedsBride Posted:

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he likes being involved. i do all the research and he goes along with it and then we make decisions together.

Ray8183 Posted:

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Posted by RedsBride

he likes being involved. i do all the research and he goes along with it and then we make decisions together.
I agree, that's my FH. Sometimes his ideas are better than mine. he doesn't read the magazine, but if I show him sometime, he will read it.
Sandradv121 Posted:

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He. Is. Groomzilla. AHHHHHH

He is very excited for the wedding and super involved. I don't mind except when he becomes groomzilla. Thats when i run and hide. I am such a laid back person, very whatever (except when I get messed with) but he is very on top of everything. For instance, if I call up a vendor something and I don't get an answer right away, theres FH on the phone with them being persistant and demanding.

At least I'm not Bridezilla.
pasta3825 Posted:

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Posted by T E R I

FH is not involved at all, he only came to the RH with me to sign the contract. He just wants to know how much


I have exactly the same situation. It's funny because he is not even paying for it.

I think FH isn't involved because we live in Rochester, and he has only been to LI 2 dozen times. I usually go by myself (and my MOH) to look at places and venues.
CristinanBen2010 Posted:

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Fh is somewhat involved. He comes to all the appointments and stuff but I do the research and appointments.

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