How long will you wait...

We were thinking like 27 years or so. Really enjoy living together for the first time!

LOL ok MAYBE not THAT long . . . but it depends on the day

We have had serious conversations about only waiting six months and then the next day had just as serious of a conversation about possibly NEVER having kids. It depends on the minute that you ask us.

We will see what God has in store for us - but hopefully we will at least have a house first!

We'll have been living together for five years by the time we get married, and I'll already be 33. So, I already figured it out that my patch is due to be off two weeks before the wedding, and I'm just not going to put on a new one...
That way, we can just hope it happens naturally...I won't start to like...work at it, you know, checking for ovulation and all that...until after a year, if nothing happens...I like the idea of not getting my period, and actually wondering...happily...if I'm pregnant!!

fh just told me last night 3 months before ah

We both said we would wait! now this..i think ive convinced him that we can live in the city with a newborn

Since I am going to school to become a teacher I wont be graduated and certified until 8 months after the wedding. Then I need a job and be off probationary period/have tenure. So thats another 3 years.

Plus we will only be 23/22 when we are married and i want to enjoy our married life together especially since Fh has been either out of state or out of the country our whole relationship because he is owned by the Marine Corps. PLus we want a house before we try.

So around 4 years but if it happens it happens and we will embrace it.

We are moving to NH about 1 year after we get married, and I will most likely be starting a new job in NH (unless I can work from home with my current company) I will need to stay at the new job for 1 year before going out on maternity leave (in order to get benefits, I've been told that this is the federal law??) .... so to make a long story short ... I am hoping to have my first child 2 years after we are married. I feel like I am getting super old ... if all works out as planned, I will be 33 when I have my first baby, and that seems very old to me ...

I would like to start trying the minute we are married but our apt is too small to have a baby in it, and if we are moving to NH we are not going to move to a new apt and then move to NH.

whenever we are settled into a house and we can financially afford it. i dont want to put a timeframe on it

we're not waiting, both of us have had the baby bug for a while now, so he & i already said we are going to start trying on our hunnymoon!

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Posted by DD628

to have babies?

I think we want to wait 2/3 years after our wedding, but I am already wanting them!

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yea i think about 2-3 years also

we need at least a year or 2 for us to enjoy each other