How many BM's....

DinaAndRob Posted: Jul 01, 2008 10:18 AM

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I have 4 BM's and 1 MOH

2009wedding Posted: Jul 01, 2008 11:00 AM

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I have one MOH, 3 BM, 1 Jr BM, 1 flower girl (maybe two flower girls). My FH has 1 best man, 3 grooms men, and 1 ring bearer.

ddnsp618 Posted: Jul 01, 2008 11:04 AM

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1- MOH (matron)
1- MOH (maid)
4- BMs
0- flower girls

and FH has

1-BM (who he doesnt know yet)
?-GM....he cant make up his mind
3-ring bearers (my adorable nephews)

its bigger then i thought...i just want a small BP....buuuut that is not going to work i guess!

NicoleandAlex Posted: Jul 01, 2008 11:29 AM

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I am have 7 BMs and 1 Flower girl... my FH is going to have 7 groomsman as well and 1 ring bear.. so all in all we are having a big wedding party..

Cinigs917 Posted: Jul 01, 2008 11:37 AM

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i have

1 moh
6 bridesmaids
1 flowergirl

i think your wedding will look fine!

AHimar24 Posted: Jul 04, 2008 06:34 PM

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I have 7, I don't think 8 is too many, let me make you feel better . . . I'm going to a wedding in September and the girl has 14
BM . . . now that is insane!

AHimar24 Posted: Jul 04, 2008 06:35 PM

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Posted by Aristotelina

I have 9 BMs!!!

I wanted ZERO at first but FH and I compromised

That was quite a compromise . . . what did he initially want?? 20?

CMBove Posted: Jul 04, 2008 10:22 PM

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6 BM including MOH (2 sisters, 4 friends- 2 from HS, two from grad school) :)

Jayla127 Posted: Jul 04, 2008 10:28 PM

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I have 7 and I'm about to add one more to the list.

jmd75 Posted: Jul 05, 2008 09:19 AM

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I don't think any amount would be too many. It really comes down to you and the FH and who is important in your lives.

I have one MOH - my sister
7 BMS - my 2 nieces, 2 sister in laws, 3 close friends

FH hasn't asked anyone ( i think i had asked my girls within a week
But the last time we talked about it i think he'll have about 7 total.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Jul 05, 2008 09:20 AM

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I have 8..i wanted 4...but i have a lot of cousins!

TaraVinny Posted: Jul 05, 2008 09:23 AM

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i'm having 10!

tinadansr Posted: Jul 05, 2008 10:24 AM

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4 BM's
1 FG

JKFris09 Posted: Jul 05, 2008 10:53 AM

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I don't , it's all relative to how you want your wedding to be and what you want. I'm having six because it was just the number of people that I wanted to include, they were the six closest people to me.

frescelena Posted: Jul 05, 2008 10:56 AM

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I'm having 8 BM and FH did not want that many---mostly because of costs! But I just couldn't leave people out! Go with what you REALLY want
I wouldn't worry about how it's going to look

sabrescinderella Posted: Jul 05, 2008 11:17 AM

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my FI picked 9 guys but i am trying to have him cut it down to 7.

I asked 5 girls so far and im waiting to ask more til he decides his side

so i think ill be having 6 BMS and 1 MOH--- 7 total