How many brides have or will be

Planning their own bachlorette party??

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Not me. If it were up to me I don't even think I'd have one, or I'd just have a mixed one with our closest friends, my sister is pretty adamant about me having one though lol.

How many brides have or will be

Not me and dont think I'm having one... Especially since I had to plan my own shower....

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Posted by Chels

Not me and dont think I'm having one... Especially since I had to plan my own shower....

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Aw really I'm sorry! :(

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I did and I didn't lol....I told my bridesmaids exactly what I wanted and offered to book it all but they insisted on making all the phone calls and booking everything.

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I ask bc I know what I want to do but I have a feeling it's going to be a problem! And I'm going to stress my self out trying to accommodate everyone. Everyone being my moh and grandma really not everyone.
I want to go to the city and see sex tips for the straight women from a gay.man! My grandma can't walk well so she won't go to the city so we have to have dinner on long island and get a private room for a stripper. Which is fine, she won't go to the play after either so there needs to be time for my mom to take her home!
Then the other issue is The play only had a 3 & 8pm showing....my moh gets off work at 6ish!! That's not enough time for dinner and a stripper and a trip to the city!!
So idk what we are gonna do, I know I have plenty of time to think about this though!! I was just curious if I was the only one trying to figure this stuff out!!

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Posted by Vilardi82

I did and I didn't lol....I told my bridesmaids exactly what I wanted and offered to book it all but they insisted on making all the phone calls and booking everything.

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I should do that!! Lol make them figure out all out!!

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Posted by xBudgetBridex

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Posted by Chels

Not me and dont think I'm having one... Especially since I had to plan my own shower....

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Aw really I'm sorry! :(

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It turned out for the best- I'm pretty good at that stuff anyway and they were kinda lost constantly asking me what to do... So that's why i just took it into my own hands. I actually had a great time.

As for the bachlorette i think they want the same thing to happen but I'm not allowing it/ doing it.

But if I didnt do the shower I may have planned the bachlorette.

Things don't always happen like how they should (or dreamed) but it shouldnt stop you from having a great time and having one if you really want it. (if you are thinking to plan it yourself)

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I am, I'm just day drinking on fire island so everyone just had to let me know if they're coming and meet at the ferry.

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Posted by JaimeLin

I am, I'm just day drinking on fire island so everyone just had to let me know if they're coming and meet at the ferry.

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that is a really nice idea!

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I pretty much am. I just want a night of dancing and that is exactly what we are going to do...No Dinner,nothing costly just good old fashioned drunk fun lol...

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Posted by xBudgetBridex

I ask bc I know what I want to do but I have a feeling it's going to be a problem! And I'm going to stress my self out trying to accommodate everyone. Everyone being my moh and grandma really not everyone.
I want to go to the city and see sex tips for the straight women from a gay.man! My grandma can't walk well so she won't go to the city so we have to have dinner on long island and get a private room for a stripper. Which is fine, she won't go to the play after either so there needs to be time for my mom to take her home!
Then the other issue is The play only had a 3 & 8pm showing....my moh gets off work at 6ish!! That's not enough time for dinner and a stripper and a trip to the city!!
So idk what we are gonna do, I know I have plenty of time to think about this though!! I was just curious if I was the only one trying to figure this stuff out!!

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Can she meet you in the city? or possibly take that day off?

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Posted by summerbridejen2015

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Posted by xBudgetBridex

I ask bc I know what I want to do but I have a feeling it's going to be a problem! And I'm going to stress my self out trying to accommodate everyone. Everyone being my moh and grandma really not everyone.
I want to go to the city and see sex tips for the straight women from a gay.man! My grandma can't walk well so she won't go to the city so we have to have dinner on long island and get a private room for a stripper. Which is fine, she won't go to the play after either so there needs to be time for my mom to take her home!
Then the other issue is The play only had a 3 & 8pm showing....my moh gets off work at 6ish!! That's not enough time for dinner and a stripper and a trip to the city!!
So idk what we are gonna do, I know I have plenty of time to think about this though!! I was just curious if I was the only one trying to figure this stuff out!!

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Can she meet you in the city? or possibly take that day off?

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She is my MOH I don't rant get to miss anything. Taking off is going to be hard booth have alot of weddings between now and the end of 2015. She can't take a day of for my bachelorette party she just started there. Maybe leave at 5! But maybe that's something I.Will let them figure out. I find it the play times and cost u guys figure out dinner, stripper and times!! This way I don't have to worry about it!!

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I told my girls what I want to do. I want to spend a weekend in Rehoboth Beach, DE. I love it down there, there's so much to do (beach, tax-free outlet shopping!, good restaurants, breweries, bars, etc.) We figured out a weekend. All I have to do is tell them who I want invited and they'll send out emails and plan the whole thing. That's what bridesmaids are supposed to do!

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I don't know if I'll be planning it, but I have told my sisters what I want. I am not a big drinker or club goer, so we were thinking of a spa weekend or trip to the vineyards.

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I don't think I'm doing one. I might do something with my sister or maybe a friend or two, but nothing big. I'm not a party goer or into club hopping.

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Posted by okellies

I don't think I'm doing one. I might do something with my sister or maybe a friend or two, but nothing big. I'm not a party goer or into club hopping.

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This is actually my first answer lol...I wasn't going to but my friend said she wants to do something....I would rather not have one...my FH doesn't want one either!

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I'm skipping the bachelorette party. I'm over going clubbing and the such, so I'm not into going into the city/clubbing/drinking all night. Maybe if I was still in my 20's. A lot of my bridal party is out of town and prob wouldn't be able to make it anyway. It's just as well. Save everyone the money.

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I told my MOH what I want to do and hopefully she sticks to my ideas. She wants to go away in the worst way but it would end up being me and her and that wouldn't really make for a fun bachelorette party. I told her I wanted to do a trip to the wineries or a spa day and dinner.

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There has been some drama within my bridal party. I was really upset about it at first cause no one wants to hear or deal with bridal party drama. So I told my bridal party what I ideally wanted and what I didn't want. What I ideally wanted my moh and one bridesmaid can't do cause they have kids and can't be away for a weekend to go to AC. Totally understandable. My one bridesmaid said she could maybe come for one day or part of one day. Some how the others of the bridal party just went ahead and started planning based on what I ideally wanted instead of brain storming other ideas with the other two or talking things over. So they were obviously offended and pissed off, a lot of drama happened. So now I have a split bridal party, some don't like the others and some refuse to talk to others lol. And now I am getting 2 bachelorette parties. I have no clue if what either are planning is what I ideally wanted but I'm hoping after all the drama and fighting within the bridal party, that both are fun.