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How many 'crashers' did you have?

brooklynbridezilla Posted:

How many 'crashers' did you have?

I mean:

-the ones who weren't invited and came anyway

-the guests who brought guests

-the ones who rsvp'd no and came anyway (with or withour guest)

Can you tell this is one of my nightmares? I have been advised to bring extra $$$ to pay for these ppl....But I might be mean enough to turn them away!

How much $$$ do you bring in case?
Blu-ize Posted:

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I don't know if this applies. The woman who used to take care of my grandmother was invited to the wedding with her husband. She brought her son and sister!



to answer your question, I paid with a check
Ronkonkomonga Posted:

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what thats crazy! I wasn't expecting any crashers. i would tell the hall not to seat them,

cjik Posted:

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Not a single one.

Our wedding was really small, and most people knew we were concerned about the size, so maybe that's why?? I don't know, but we were fortunate in this regard.
ML110 Posted:

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we had one- my mom's friend ended up bringing a date when she told us she was coming solo, we had to squeeze and extra seat at her table for him.... we also had 3 of DHs cousins leave after the ceremony and not come to the reception ( even though they had RSVPd that they were coming). we ended up having to pay for them, because we had included them in out count that we gave the hall..... i can understand if an emergency came up and they couldn't make it... but they came to the church, and not the reception... it was weird!

suezboss Posted:

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We had 2- but they were the BEST CRASHERS EVER!!!! Yeah Donna (Doodles) and Chris!



and actually 4 people had to leave, so I told them to stay and it worked out perfect!!
nicknmb Posted:

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OMG - I never thought of this!

-Where do they sit?
nan&dave Posted:

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I had about 5.

The worse part of the whole thing, is that they are people that I don't like.
DMcK Posted:

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We had no crashers, phew, but we had one couple not come
Aga Posted:

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no crashes, but we had about 6 no shows
littlebookworm4 Posted:

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UGH!! I never even thought of that!
SomethingBlu Posted:

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My hall is awesome and wasn't going to charge me anyway...but I had 2 crashers...although I had 11 no shows. So there was no way I would have ever paid for them.

As to 'where would they sit?' At that point, it's up to the Maitre 'D...don't stress about this!
Mrs.Z Posted:

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we thought we had 2 but they turned out to be the violinist and pianist, So the answer is none

jsb1ot Posted:

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Posted by Ronkonkomonga

what thats crazy! I wasn't expecting any crashers. i would tell the hall not to seat them,



I totally agree. We are not setting up a new table to seat 'crashers.' It's not a b-b-q where you can just show up as you please nor bring anyone with you. THE NERVE!!!!!!!!!!
Summer05 Posted:

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We had 7
MrsA814 Posted:

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i had two people at my wedding that were not invited at all. I pissed me off really bad

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