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How many NO shows?

MIKENSTACE Posted:

How many NO shows?

My friend just got married & told me she had 5 no show? Now she has my worried because thats a waste of $750-
wishingwell1230 Posted:

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OMG that's horrible!!! I can totally understand if some emergency or something comes up and they tell you but just standing you up at your wedding? WOW! And yes a waste of money!!

I am going to try and not to think about this...at least until I send invites out and thats not for a while. lol
mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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I would be very. very. pissed. Especially if nobody was notified
evita2781 Posted:

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

I would be very. very. pissed. Especially if nobody was notified



same here! i just hope this doesn't happen to us
Rosalind_75 Posted:

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i had 2

never even got in touch with me as to why they never showed

JessNicole7EM Posted:

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I had 0.

But I did have a bunch of cancellations the last week.
evita2781 Posted:

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Posted by JessNicole7EM

I had 0.

But I did have a bunch of cancellations the last week.



that's nice that you got a heads up. were you able to fill those?
mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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Posted by evita2781


Posted by JessNicole7EM

I had 0.

But I did have a bunch of cancellations the last week.



that's nice that you got a heads up. were you able to fill those?



how many is 'a bunch'?! I hope they were legit reasons.

ugggh, going too much over my minimum and being under stresses me outttt
FutureJOC Posted:

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I would be so mad. I actually have a second cousin who just RSVP that both him and his wife are coming but I had such a gut feeling it's just going to be him coming. I almost don't even want to put down a yes for her.

JessNicole7EM Posted:

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Posted by evita2781


Posted by JessNicole7EM

I had 0.

But I did have a bunch of cancellations the last week.



that's nice that you got a heads up. were you able to fill those?



I was able to fill 4.

I was down 11 that last week.

An entire family of 5.

My Aunt & Uncle because she went into the hospital.

My friend and her husband because there newborn baby had a fever.

My mom's cousins husband cancelled, she came solo

And my cousin is getting a divorce so his wife said the week before that it would be too hard to go as a family.
JessNicole7EM Posted:

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi


Posted by evita2781


Posted by JessNicole7EM

I had 0.

But I did have a bunch of cancellations the last week.



that's nice that you got a heads up. were you able to fill those?



how many is 'a bunch'?! I hope they were legit reasons.

ugggh, going too much over my minimum and being under stresses me outttt



11 people.
deeda1129 Posted:

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Posted by MIKENSTACE

My friend just got married & told me she had 5 no show? Now she has my worried because thats a waste of $750-



that's BS!!!! My friend had someone who responded yes and then a few days before said he wasn't going. THen gave her a check for $25!! Mind you, it was a raphael vineyards so that wasn't even CLOSE to covering his plate, or even his cutlery!
mollygurl24 Posted:

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I had 5 no shows. and an additional 5 cancellation the week of.

mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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Posted by mollygurl24

I had 5 no shows. and an additional 5 cancellation the week of.



UGH! How do you just not show up to a wedding?!

sandybeaches115 Posted:

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We had 2 complete NO shows (didn't call me)
We then had 4 people who were sick and did let me know (i could only get reimbursed for 3 people)
smilesjc81 Posted:

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im expecting about 2 to 4 last min cancels

one a shady ex-coworker w/ a guest
one co-worker w/ a guest


im mentally prepping myself for them to now show up
but I already warned people on FB

I will CALL YOU OUT IN PUBLIC if you dont excuse yourself from my weddinf properly

i actually wont mind 2 or 3 formal informed cancellations

I only wanted 80 people at my wedding, i'm sitting at 101 LOL
MIKENSTACE Posted:

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More things to stress about- Great!!
alexb Posted:

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I had 10 in total... some people cancelled last minute but we underestimated our number anyway so that helped.

luvstruck Posted:

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I barely made my minimum, so I hope this does not happen.
kshea23 Posted:

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FH posted on FB that he's going to send every person whose a no show an invoice for the cost of their plate .


so my guests have been warned!!!! LOL

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