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I don't think we are fighting but FH & I have both said we can not wait to get our lives back, be married and not plan a wedding any more.
You worded it better, we don't fight, we argue.It hurts because you feel like everything is falling apart and the whole time all your trying to do is make this a perfect day.
I wish we were fighting over the wedding. Nope...our approach is just to pretend it's going to plan itself!! Great.
Posted by Kerin2804
I don't think we are fighting but FH & I have both said we can not wait to get our lives back, be married and not plan a wedding any more.
Posted by kmcs317
I wish we were fighting over the wedding. Nope...our approach is just to pretend it's going to plan itself!! Great.
Yes. We have been both on edge lately. Between planning a wedding, fixing a house, money issues, and work being crazy. I am surpised we both haven't had a nervous breakdown.
at first we werent but now we are. Yesterday we were both bickering all morning and FMIL was like 'this is supposed to be happy time guys'
when we hit the 3-month mark it got a little rocky- I felt like there was so much to do & felt like fh wasnt doing anything- so after our 15th wedding related argument- he asked me to make him a list of stuff that he could do. So now every Monday, I hand him a list of tasks- I give him small things to do- like pick up the paper for the programs, etc- but it makes me feel like I have help & makes him feel involved- hth
My fiance and I came to an agreement to come up with a list of things yet to be done so that way we can stay on track and tomorrow we are not allowed to go to bed until the seating chart is completed. He told me to go and buy post-it's and we will plaster them all over the wall until we get it right. It was actually a good idea on his part to put everyones name on a post it so that way it is easier to move it around when it needs to be changed. No erasing.
this has been the most (to date I think) stressful time in my life... planning a wedding out of state is insanity! we have disagreed on many things and argued quite a bit. It seems that lately I'm over emotional about EVERYTHING! and take everything to heart and he is still trying so hard to maintain his calm 'i don't care' 'whatever' it will all work out' mind set and I'm over here still freaking out about everything.. that's what us perfectionist do- over analyze and detail the heck out of things... between that and our crazy schedules and hardly seeing each other when we need to get things done it's been a mess. I've been a mess and I've stressed him out so much during all of this- I think we are both ready for this to sadly be past us... and we can get back to our lives.
In our seven years together we never really faught.... now all we do is fight. I cant wait untill this is all over and we have our lives back
I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one. As much as I love this whole wedding stuff I'm at the point where I need it to be over.
