How many of you had/have a B list?
I'm finalizing the final # on my side of the finally. I have a B list with about 10 or 12 people. I spoke to a wedding planner who suggested I just include everyone on my main list and told me that a B list is not a good idea. I'm afraid of not getting enough NO's and being over capacity. My wedding is on a holiday weekend but at the same time FH and I have about 4 OOT guests only. Everyone is pretty much local. The thing is too, these people on my B list, I don't interact with very much. But they are family and thanks to facebook, they know I'm getting married and I feel bad not inviting them (but I must say, if it wasn't for facebook, I prob would not invite them). What would u ladies do??