...at your shower? I am having about 100 people for my wedding, but I was only planning on having about 15 people at my shower. I am not sure if that's right.
kittythestray
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I'm about the same as you - only about 100 for the wedding and about 20 at the shower, I don't think it's appropriate to invite EVERYONE to your shower, I htink it's just people you're closer to. I'm not inviting coworkers or FH friends wives because I'm not close to them at all.
October Bliss
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The shower guest list I gave my MOH has 39 people on it. Once you remove OOT and allow for 10% no's, there should be @ 20 people in attendance.
bride2b24
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my list consists of about 80 ppl but we have very large families
nov2004bride
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You can have as many people as you would like at your shower.
I had over 70 ppl come and close to 90 invited but we invited 320 people to our wedding.
evnme
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i think there were 40-45 ppl at mine
R&J0806
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That's entirely up to you. I had somewhere between 30-35 people at my shower (I think 45 were invited) and my way-too-big guest list is around 240.
Some people feel that every female wedding guest belongs at the shower. I personally, felt otherwise.
But keep one thing in mind: It's YOUR shower. Do what you want and don't worry about offending anyone
larryswife2be
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My mother said 37 are invited to my shower. So Im assuming I'll have 30 in attendance.
scappy123
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I am inviting a little over 100 for the wedding, the shower will be approximately 30 people invited
STBH
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I am having between 20 - 30 people!!! I really wanted something small and intimate!
RadioLau
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I don't know what will be at my shower but I hope my mom only invited the people that I know.
Maybride519
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I am having 100 people at the wedding and had about 30 at the shower
futuremrsGafforio
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I will probably have around 50.
Summer101
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40
06NovBride
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I gave my sister the list of all the women who were invited to the wedding. I'm not sure from there how many people are being invited, but you can have as many or as few people as you like.
Soon2bMrs.MC
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regardless of the size of your wedding, you can have as many pple as you want at your shower!
I feel shower is just for close family/friends, so i strictly invited only my close pple.
sarahthegreat
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the guest list for the shower is about 60 - i'm hoping for about 40-45. my fmil went a little nuts
hocus
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I think I had about 25 people (it was co-ed) and we invited about 235 to our wedding so I think you're fine.
I know that some people invite almost all female guests to their shower -- but there is nothing wrong (and in my opinion a lot right) with having a small shower of the people closest to you.
Boston&NY2006
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We invited 250 to the wedding, and I had about 90 people total at my showers (I had one in Boston and one in NY).
It basically depends on how close you are to the women invited.
SummerBride06
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i have no clue how many are invited or coming...my mom is doing all of that
