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How much do we give to the church for our wedding?

debbie192 Posted:

How much do we give to the church for our wedding?

I have no idea what to give the church. I know that we give a donation but how much? Any input would be greatly appreciated. Thanks

SeptBride70 Posted:

Re: How much do we give to the church for our wedding?

usually the church pretty much tells you what to give them-- they call it the 'offering' or 'donation' but it's usually mandatory.

ours is like 650-700 bucks

hope that helps

i would give them a call-- they'll be MORE than happy to tell you how much money to give them!
Nlynn Posted:

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My church told me how much the donation was. A month before the wedding they sent me a bill.

MF9282 Posted:

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Our Church calls it a fee lol and it is $675.00
Holy moly!

Stieler Posted:

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My church was so nice... they said it was a donation of $400.00 but they would not hold us to it. If we couldn't afford it, we didn't have to DONATE.
PS- Of course we're paying. After all the money spent on a wedding... why would you say no to the church?!?!
jenn122397 Posted:

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ours is called a 'donation' even thought they told us how much im pretty sure it was $400 but no more than $500
Regal Beagle Posted:

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My church wants 300.00 and the organist wants 200.00.



Regal Beagle Posted:

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Since this is considered a donation, can we claim it on our taxes????


MattandTricia07 Posted:

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I think its 500 at my church

billandme Posted:

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Our church was $700 plus we gave our priest $150

drpepper318 Posted:

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Our church donation is $475.
I don't mind paying it because I know it's going for a good cause (the upkeep of the parish).
MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Our total for the church is $600 or $700 I believe.

$300 for the use of the church
$100 for the clergy (priest)
$100 for the organist
$100 for the soloist
$100 for ? I forget

This seems to be about the average of what other LIW ladies have posted... although some have paid over $1000!!! and some like $300 total. So it depends. I'd call your church and ask what the average donation has been.
SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted:

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Mine is:

$700 for the church as an offering
150 for the singer
150 for the organist


Do people usually pay the full amount...or if it's a donation and you pay the day of are they really going to stop the wedding if you dont pay it?
JenNDan07 Posted:

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Ours is a $600 donation. They tell you how much.

leafgirl Posted:

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Some churches do not tell you what to give if you belong. It's a donation soley up to you and what you can afford. Our church told me it is up to our and we can donate whatever we could. Our Pastor even said a very low figure. We will be giving what we feel fit. Some churches if you don't belong will charge a certain fee for different things in the church. Church usage, pastor or preist, sexton, etc. Just ask them how they handle this at their Church. HTH

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