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How much do you spend on shower gifts for friends?

GettinHutched Posted:

How much do you spend on shower gifts for friends?

Let's say it's a friend you see maybe a couple of times a year....

what would you spend?

I'm obviously not Ms. Moneybags right now...but I hope I'm not being cheap. I'm spending about $60. Is that okay? It's been awhile since I had to buy a shower gift for a friend so I'm not even sure what's acceptable....last time i want to say I spent around $80 and she was a pretty close friend. I remember my mom yelling at me saying I spent too much! I also made my friend a DIY photo album.

Would that look bad if I only spent around $60? And that's including wishing well....

Thanks!
AllJoy Posted:

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That is fine if she is not a close friend.

Bride4Mike07 Posted:

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not a close friend no more than $50...but a very close friend $100 or more.

ido07 Posted:

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I think $60 would be totally appropriate.

AlmostKulak Posted:

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Sounds alright to me, I would have said around 50 if you are not that close.

Pencils Posted:

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That's fine. I think people sometimes go overboard with these things. I had my shower yesterday and I'm just happy people came. The presents were a bonus.

portjeffbride Posted:

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yeah, I'm usually in that ballpark too.... $50-$70. frankly, good friends at my shower were spending more in the $40-$60 range.... (I know - gift cards!)

hope this helps...
Drv0716 Posted:

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That sounds fine. Do whatever you can afford!

MrsQ-in2007 Posted:

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Tara, that totally sounds fine!!! I would have said about $50 for a friend who is not one of my BEST friends.
PattyK Posted:

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I think that $60 is fine for someone who is not a close friend.

MushesGirl Posted:

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i recently spent $40 on not a close friend; she knows i'm getting married soon too, AND i recently had my shower and she didn't send anything!!! (she lives in florida). and she rsvp'd NO and i went to her wedding in florida! she has another wedding the same day as mine and she's doing a reading. which is fine. but no shower gift??

tricia3381 Posted:

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Posted by AlmostKulak

Sounds alright to me, I would have said around 50 if you are not that close.




same here
Mooshyboo Posted:

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it depends ~ if not so close $50.00 ish if a i am close with someone probably $100.00 + i usually go overboard - i just start having fun!
nycgirl79 Posted:

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$60 is more than fine. I usually spend between $40 and $60 - depending on the person.

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