Just curious to see how many of your FH are helping plan. . if so, what are they doing (or what do they refuse to do)
Celeste617
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FH has been involved in pretty much every aspect of the planning, for the most part. Though he said he wanted me to pick out the flowers, he's picked out the CPs and my bouquet Lucky for him we have the same taste His BIG thing is the way the cake looks! He's always sending me pics It's adorable and I wouldn't want it any other way!
meara
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That's cute. Mine is same way. in beg he was like I don't care whatever you want and now he has an opinion on everything !!!
Deeglasser
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he's great, very supportive and very excited! before we booked our catering hall, i was freaking out about the guest list... (i knew that we should have a general idea of how many guests we were going to have in order to look at certain places) i was at work and i got an email... he created an excel doc with a complete guest list of everyone he could think of! his family and mine! also, since the church we grew up attending is completely out of the question, i was doing some research at work for a church out where we are having our reception... during work hours i sent him a link to the church to show him what it looked like... i got a response from him saying, 'i'm on the phone with them now.' i was quite surprised at his willingness to participate in the planning! let's hope this behavior continues!
gina409
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yes i am alucky gal cause fh is involved in everything but the dress and i prefer it that way..i really feel like its our wedding then
FutureMrsG
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My FH likes to be part of the decision making side of the planning but he is not into finding the vendors or generating new ideas. He is more of the critic but I am glad that he wants to be part of the planning. It can be a little frustrating when he shoots down my ideas but does not offer any new suggestions.
Sweeteey51
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My FH is into going to the appts and meeting the vendors, but not so much into the details like I am. Hes like if you like it then i like it I know what i like but i want an opinion
beram63
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it's taken FH 4 months to book the DJ
angels914
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My FH likes to be part of the decision making side of the planning and meeting all the vendors. Now that's all the major vendors are done the next thing we will be doing together are the STD,invites and gifts. He basically wants to be involved in it all.....
PoppedInASnap
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He is 100% into the entire aspect of wedding planning....hes even mentioned that i need to get a hair trial
FutureMrsWildes
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FH has been my SUPER GROOM!!! He's helped with everything. I wanna make him a t-shirt on customizedgirl.com with the super man symbol and have it say super groom!!! He really has been amazing and thankfully we have the same 'vision' for the wedding - so no fights...yet! Ha.
Just Cindy
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He hasnt been involved that much. he went to pick the RH and drove me to some vendors but thats about it. Its been all me!!!!!!!!!!
MirabellaNYC
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My FH and I are a team on our planning!
He's as into it as I am, although I've been a little more crazy because of the dress hunt (which is officially complete after last night!) But equally crazy, he's ripping out magazine pics of tuxedos! We're definitely 2 of a kind. So far we've agreed on everything. But we have very similar tastes and opinions. The only thing he said he's not a fan of is red roses, which I am..So far that's the only disagreement, which is very minor.
NikkiR515
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FH always comes with me to look at vendors.. He is very vocal when he does not like something but when he likes more than one vendor, he is of no help to making the final decision! We went to 3 florsits and we both agreed we did not like one of them. As for the other two he was like 'they are both good so you pick!' I like that I have more control over the planning because I can be a bit anal at times but I wish he would give me more concrete opinions!
evewedsjc
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ZILCH ZERO...HE JUST KNOWS WHAT DAY TO SHOW UP...
ace730
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helping? what? Well, he is paying for the entire wedding so that is actually a HUGE help, but it is like pulling teeth and nail sometimes to ask him to go over the guest list or stuff envelopes. He claims he wants to feel like a guest at his own wedding.
VickiR510
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Honestly, FH is so into all of the planning. We made every decision together & we went to every vendor together. He likes to have a say & i really want him to love everything just as much as I do. Its been so fabulous we agree on everything! Its scary. lollol
Im a Pepper
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FH goes with the flow. He gives input when I ask for it but he doesn't take initiative with planning (except for the honeymoon, which he's fully in charge of).
NickandTara426
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Absolutely NOT lol! He told me after we got engaged that his job is to show up and everything is up to me
stefandken
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my FH has been GREAT.... he has come with me to every single vendor appointments from the RH to the DJ to the photographer to the videographer... he says the only thing he dosn't really care about is the flowers.. but im sure he'll give his opinion
