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How much to spend on b'day gift?

BlondeJD Posted:

How much to spend on b'day gift?

One of my very good friends (a BM) has a birthday next week. I know that she really wants one of those imitation Tiffany mesh rings that's usually advertised in US Weekly. I feel weird buying someone a fake ring though, so I was considering just buying the real deal, which is $125. Is that too much? My b'day is in 2 months and I know that she couldn't reciprocate. This doesn't matter at ALL to me, but I don't want her to feel awkward. So, how much is appropriate in general?

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: How much to spend on b'day gift?

i normally dont spend that much on a friends gift, ..considering she is a BM if u have the money i say go for it! or what about making that part of ur bm's gift:)

Donna Posted:

Re: How much to spend on b'day gift?

It really depends on how much you usually spend on each other. My friends and I try to stay in the same range $50-60 with more on special occassions - 30th bday, etc.

If I was your friend and rec'd the real ring I would feel that I had to spend that amount on you for your bday.

Does Tiffany have gift cards? What about that?

ETA - I think you're very sweet for caring so much about her bday gift.

Another thought - is it possible she does want the fake one? Maybe she knows she loses jewelry so doesn't want the real one?
WinterBride2005 Posted:

Re: How much to spend on b'day gift?

Maybe you can split the cost with another friend and both give it to her?

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