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How rude is this?

May152005 Posted:

How rude is this?

FH & I invited his brothers best friend to the wedding with a guest. Well, yesterday this 'friend' called FH to ask him if he should add his brither onto his RSVP card or if his brothers invitation was in the mail!

I'm so annoyed, I would never call the groom to ask if I can bring members of my family to a wedding!

Just for clarification, I don't think his brother is going to be his guest, I think he's bringing his girlfriend, brother & brothers girlfriend!
littlebookworm4 Posted:

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That's pretty ballsy of him!

Mrs. dleeny Posted:

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VERY RUDE

Donna&Joe708 Posted:

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Wow! Some people never cease to amaze me!
akaMrsT Posted:

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Hmmmm? Are you or FH even close with FBIL's best friend's brother?

Wow, that was kind of a tongue twister. That alone makes me think the guy should not get an invite.
edsprincess Posted:

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How rude. Who the hell does he think he is, asking if he can invite people.

May152005 Posted:

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Posted by kdrainey

Hmmmm? Are you or FH even close with FBIL's best friend's brother?

Wow, that was kind of a tongue twister. That alone makes me think the guy should not get an invite.



Nope - not close at all, I wasn't even planning on inviting the brother (FBIL bestfriend), but FH insisted because he said if we didn't it was going to cause problems with his brother because his brother considers this guy family!
Bumsie Posted:

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FH should just politely tell him, NO, we were
only inviting you and a guest. If you would like to bring him as YOUR guest, that's perfectly fine with us.
AnniesSS Posted:

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Posted by kdrainey

Hmmmm? Are you or FH even close with FBIL's best friend's brother?

Wow, that was kind of a tongue twister. That alone makes me think the guy should not get an invite.



Well put! lol This guy has some nerve to even ask if someone else can come or if he's getting an invite!
Bunnymonkey Posted:

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extremely rude.

Dooodles Posted:

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stupid people never cease to amaze me

AtticaQT Posted:

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Posted by May152005


Posted by kdrainey

Hmmmm? Are you or FH even close with FBIL's best friend's brother?

Wow, that was kind of a tongue twister. That alone makes me think the guy should not get an invite.



Nope - not close at all, I wasn't even planning on inviting the brother (FBIL bestfriend), but FH insisted because he said if we didn't it was going to cause problems with his brother because his brother considers this guy family!




This is the thing that pissed me off the most when i was getting my responses!! And the 'family' comment - OMG -such a greek thing! That guy has SOME nerve - he seriously is inviting someone else just by his question. Dude the invite was addressed to you and only you - End of discussion.

What are you going to do?
May152005 Posted:

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Posted by AtticaQT


Posted by May152005


Posted by kdrainey

Hmmmm? Are you or FH even close with FBIL's best friend's brother?

Wow, that was kind of a tongue twister. That alone makes me think the guy should not get an invite.



Nope - not close at all, I wasn't even planning on inviting the brother (FBIL bestfriend), but FH insisted because he said if we didn't it was going to cause problems with his brother because his brother considers this guy family!




This is the thing that pissed me off the most when i was getting my responses!! And the 'family' comment - OMG -such a greek thing! That guy has SOME nerve - he seriously is inviting someone else just by his question. Dude the invite was addressed to you and only you - End of discussion.

What are you going to do?




There's not much I can do, FH was caught off guard & he blurted out to just put the brother on his RSVP card! I don't understand why they would even want to come to my wedding! We don't have any type of relationship with any of them. I'm sooo annoyed, more at the fact that he had the audacity to call FH & actually ask him this!

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